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Old 11-07-2014, 02:35 AM
 
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I've gotten hit on at Walmart and fast food places. I even had a lady touch my butt once. I felt so vulnerable (sure)
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Old 11-07-2014, 07:02 AM
 
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Yes. At a bar, at a client function, on a shoot, at the gas station, etc. It happens to me a LOT.

And, lest you think I'm making this up, several times, I've had female colleagues or clients with me several times, and they were the ones who would point it out.
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Old 11-07-2014, 07:18 AM
 
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At work one woman actually rubbed my behind. I was not happy and never went past her again. It is fun only when you want someone to do that. Otherwise it is annoying and not welcome.
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Old 11-07-2014, 07:40 AM
 
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Walmart,at work, at the casino. I was out pretty sauced one night and this one female grabbed me a few times, only reason I wasn't totally happy about it was that she **** blocked me from someone else who I had my eye on.
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Old 11-07-2014, 07:40 AM
 
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At work one woman actually rubbed my behind. I was not happy and never went past her again. It is fun only when you want someone to do that. Otherwise it is annoying and not welcome.
Now if only all men would understand that concept!
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Old 11-07-2014, 07:59 AM
 
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When I was a teen, i can remember a few times a car full of girls or such beeping as they drove by. I'd wave and enjoy it.


Nowadays, might get some flirting here and there when getting a coffee or at a bookstore, but never a "hey man, nice butt" from a middle aged mom driving the soccer mobile past me.
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Old 11-07-2014, 08:00 AM
 
Location: Washington, DC
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It's very rare for a guy to get "catcalled" in the way the video shows. A lot of guys get hit on in subtle ways, but if girls were yelling at guys on the streets we'd have more of an overpopulation problem.
Yup, I don't often get hit on in catcalling, obvious ways but sometimes the subtle ones are harder to deal with. Because you return subtle interaction with politeness, but that can fester and next thing you know someone's crushing on you ready for reciprocation.

These are often at work which is seen as a safe environment. Girls and Guys. I've had stalkers of both genders several times on the job. It actually has made me more of an ice-king these days. I totally understand why attractive women become ice-queens.
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Old 11-07-2014, 08:14 AM
 
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Once in my life. I was absolutely stunned. Baller move on her part.
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Old 11-07-2014, 08:16 AM
 
Location: Sango, TN
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Women are usually far less aggressive then those men are, but yes, I've had bedroom eyes and flirtations from women in public.
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Old 11-07-2014, 08:22 AM
 
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There are lots of guys who get hit on constantly but are oblivious to it.
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