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Unfortunately for me it's come to this. I'm 28 and a virgin. I've never even kissed a girl or been on a date. So I guess I was wondering how many of you ladies would date a guy like me? Somebody my age who you knew hadn't experienced these things? I know it's weird but would it prevent you from dating a guy like me?
Unfortunately for me it's come to this. I'm 28 and a virgin. I've never even kissed a girl or been on a date. So I guess I was wondering how many of you ladies would date a guy like me? Somebody my age who you knew hadn't experienced these things? I know it's weird but would it prevent you from dating a guy like me?
If I liked you, I wouldn't care that you were a virgin.
Unfortunately for me it's come to this. I'm 28 and a virgin. I've never even kissed a girl or been on a date. So I guess I was wondering how many of you ladies would date a guy like me? Somebody my age who you knew hadn't experienced these things? I know it's weird but would it prevent you from dating a guy like me?
I wouldn't care. And really, it's nobody's business unless you believe you're going to be sleeping with them soon.
For inexperienced, some make the mistake of thinking they need to announce it to anyone they date. If you like one another, and sex is on the way, then sure. let them know. But just because you go on a date, doesn't mean it will lead to sex. Some go on dates, and there's no chemistry, and thus they didn't get past a few dates. In which case, no need for them to know your sexual history, or lack of.
As a woman, sure. A guy who's a virgin isn't a big deal. There's actual bad things I care about.
Does he seem controlling?
Is he a drunk?
Has he ever killed anyone?
Does he seem abusive
etc.
So other stuff coming out, that's actually serious, sure I would care, in terms of possibly ending things, but this isn't one of them. Now if he was selfish sexually, that's gonna be a huge issue.
I don't think that I could, but that's only because the couple virgins I know travel in totally different circles than myself. As in, we have problems even having commonalities and our friends and family wouldn't mesh at all. My own personal experience with them is that they aren't as outgoing as myself and the people I surround myself with. They would tend to be very awkward, which just isn't my type of scene. This is just my experience; however, I'm always willing to compromise for the right person.
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Men: Would you tell a woman that you're a 28 year old virgin before asking her out?
Hell naw! That'd guarantee I'd stay a virgin.
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I don't mind about being virgin as far as tool box in action.