Possible to turn a FWB into a boyfriend? (date, woman, percentage)
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Respect yourself enough to take more time and find a man who will say, "I want something serious and committed with you" instead of feeding you manchild excuses.
"I don't want anything serious right now" is man speak for "I'm not into you that much but you'll do as a cute body to keep my wiener busy here and there."
Believe it or not, sometimes women use men for sex too.
This is true! And funny enough when I use men for sex the words out of my mouth are, "I'm not looking for anything serious with you" right before I leave the next morning.
This is true! And funny enough when I use men for sex the words out of my mouth are, "I'm not looking for anything serious with you" right before I leave the next morning.
Believe it or not, sometimes women use men for sex too.
Revenge sex mostly...
If you want something serious OP stop the sex altogether, or do it just for the sake of it, but don't expect much more. The guy at least was sincere, he says he doesn't want a relationship right now, but you shouldn't wait for him to get his feelings for you straight into something more serious the FWB.
Remember nobody "buys the cow if the milk is free".
If you want something serious OP stop the sex altogether, or do it just for the sake of it, but don't expect much more. The guy at least was sincere, he says he doesn't want a relationship right now, but you shouldn't wait for him to get his feelings for you straight into something more serious the FWB.
Remember nobody "buys the cow if the milk is free".
Over the summer this guy (23) contacted me (21) on OKC and while we kept trying to make plans to meet up, they never worked out. He was either busy or I was (with school), bad timing mostly. I let it go but he'd occasionally try again. A few weeks ago I contacted him while I was at a party and we exchanged numbers and texted for a bit, that was that. So about 2 weeks ago, he drunk texts me (more like tipsy texts me) saying he's horny, it was about 2am. I invite him over, because I had gotten stood up that night and wasn't thinking straight, probably a bad idea. Anyway, he comes over, we have sex, talk about our lives, and sleep, he leaves the next morning.
He contacted me again later that week asking if I was interested in getting together again, so I ask what he expects from me, he says he doesn't want anything serious at the moment, which is fine, but that we can be cordial. Last Friday I spent the night at his place, we had sex, talked a lot about our personal lives, cuddled, slept. The next morning he goes to work after cuddling me for a while, and lets me sleep in longer, then comes back for lunch, we cuddle more, until it's time for me to leave. He came over that Sunday too, we have sex, talk, watch some TV, sleep.
So I think I'm getting slightly attached though I know it's way too soon for anything. He seems to like me enough but I'm trying to keep in mind what he said about not wanting anything serious. My question is, if I wanted to turn this into more how should I proceed? Or is it not possible and should I leave now before things get messy?
Thanks in advance!
You know all of the male friends that you have that wanted something more and you said "let's just be friends". Well, this is the guy version of that.
Ask yourself: how many of your guy friends have gotten out of the friendzone?
The same can be said for the likelihood of you getting out of the FWB zone.
Generally speaking Women settle for being the FWB 90% of the time
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