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Old 11-08-2014, 06:00 AM
 
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Give her a call, not text.
Not unless you're over 60
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Old 11-08-2014, 06:13 AM
 
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But it is a game. No matter how much they try to convince us otherwise haha

I gave in and texted last night. Didn't get a response until 2 hours later when I was asleep. I guess I'll see If she wants to come out on Sunday night or Monday night.
It's only a game if you make it one. When you grow up, you'll find that you're tired of all the years of playing games, and you'll decide to just be yourself. That's when your dating success will begin.
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Old 11-08-2014, 06:15 AM
 
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Not unless you're over 60
No. This thinking is another mistake.
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Old 11-08-2014, 06:30 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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But it is a game. No matter how much they try to convince us otherwise haha

I gave in and texted last night. Didn't get a response until 2 hours later when I was asleep. I guess I'll see If she wants to come out on Sunday night or Monday night.
You need to grow up. You are doing far too much.

If you refer to being in a relationship as a game, you don't need to be in one. Emotions are nothing to play with.
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Old 11-08-2014, 06:27 PM
 
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You need to grow up. You are doing far too much.

If you refer to being in a relationship as a game, you don't need to be in one. Emotions are nothing to play with.
It's not a relationship after one date. It has nothing to do with playing people. It's always best to not show all your cards when you first meet someone.
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Old 11-08-2014, 06:29 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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But it is a game. No matter how much they try to convince us otherwise haha
I'm a woman, so I'm a "they," if that's what you mean.

If she makes simple communication a game, dump her.

Make plans or don't. Life is too short for people who flake on you.
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Old 11-08-2014, 06:30 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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I went out with a girl I met on Tinder last Sunday night. I liked her and had a pretty good time. At the end of the date we kissed.

I texted her when I got home about 30 minutes later;

Me: "Hey, I had a great time tonight. Thanks for coming out!
Her: "It was nice to meet you! I hope you get home okay"
Me: "haha thanks, Good luck with 4am tomorrow!"
Her: "haha thanks, I'll need it!"

I was going to wait for her to get in contact with me but I'm wondering if that won't work now since I never responded to her last message? It's Friday night now so I would expect a text from her either tonight or tomorrow if she's interested.

Should text her tomorrow if I don't hear anything from her?
Her last text was a natural end to the conversation...SOMEONE has to end it...right? Go ahead and at least text her...lots of people say to call but I understand that's not necessarily the progression these days. So text with a casual idea of something to do in the next couple days.
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Old 11-08-2014, 06:35 PM
 
Location: Lebanon, OH
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Give her a call, not text.
I second this, it's easier to put off answering a text than a ringing phone.
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Old 11-09-2014, 01:51 PM
 
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I'm a woman, so I'm a "they,"

When I say "they" I'm referring to people on these forums who say you should be completely honest, straightforward and upfront when It comes to romantic relationships. I'm trying to argue that it just doesn't work like that. Especially in the beginning when it's not even a relationship yet.
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Old 11-09-2014, 02:00 PM
 
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Good grief, punch her number and have an actual conversation with her in which you ask her out. This is ridiculous.
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