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View Poll Results: Would you date a man who's paid for sex in the past?
Yes 31 44.93%
No 38 55.07%
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Old 12-03-2014, 01:02 PM
 
Location: All Over
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Right? Like at what point do you realize you're living for someone else instead of for yourself? Why would anyone want to be part of a religion that makes you so darn miserable because it's preventing you from exploring a perfectly normal and healthy part of human intimacy?

I would certainly be questioning my religion if I woke up one day and realized it was prohibiting me from enjoying life and causing more emotional turmoil than positive guidance and soul searching. No one becomes soiled or less pure when they engage in bumping uglies outside of marriage. Some people get happiness out of waiting until marriage, but for those that are caused anxiety or depression by feeling pressure to put off the stellar act of sex, why not do what you feel is right?

But that's just me...never been a fan of shaming people for having premarital sex.
Not making a judgement one way or the other but religion isn't about doing whatever the hell you want and doing what feels right at the moment. If that were the case and someoen annoyed me I'd just kill them because thats what I feel like doing at the moment. Religion, all regions pretty much are about helping others and about sacrafice. Most religions seem to have some view of time on earth is a temporary thing and the pleasures of earth are nothing compared to the forever.
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Old 12-03-2014, 04:40 PM
 
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As long as his blood tests come back clean as bleach and he's not doing it while dating you...it's all good.
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Old 01-21-2015, 08:00 PM
 
Location: North America
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Where did the notion that the biggest clientele of escorts are loser virgins or people who cannot get sex any other way? The biggest clientele are high powered executives and politicians that have more to lose by being in casual relationships with women, and married men frustrated with their sex lives at home.
Every single "diary of a high priced escort" story I've ever read in Time or Esquire or the NY Times says this very same thing. Every single one.
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Old 01-21-2015, 08:19 PM
 
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There have been a lot of threads about virgins recently and it's interesting how many people often suggest escorts. Yet I've wondered if these same women would still respect somebody if they found out he lost his virginity to a hooker. Or indeed if any woman would.

So I figured I'd ask. Say you knew a guy who lost his virginity to a escort, would you still date him?
Aw man I don't know. My gut instinct is "no" but then my brain says that there are a dozen different ways this came about and why he saw one, what kind of person he was/is. That you can't discount an entire person based on this one thing. So I have to give you an incredibly boring "don't know" answer.
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Old 05-11-2016, 03:48 PM
 
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Some people just don't get it. They miss nuance, and they see what they want to see.

For instance they miss the part where they have to acknowledge that a man who has been with a hooker in the past few years IS INFECTED. He is NOT "clean" and there is no way he can BE clean because it takes HPV several years to clear the body.

So AGAIN, for those who can't read, when you are GUARANTEED to be infected with something, and there is a good chance that the version of the disease you are infected with can KILL a woman, she has a right to know. Of course, these guys who sleep with hookers probably can't bring themselves to admit that most hookers are drug users, and therefore at high risk for HIV, but let's just stick with HPV for the sake of simplicity.

And AGAIN, I said I did not care if it was long ago. Yes, the past IS the past, but AGAIN timing from exposure matters. This is not a matter of "having it both ways." It could very well be a matter of life and death for the women these jackasses then date and marry, because of CERVICAL CANCER. Only a moron would knowingly sleep with a man who has been with hookers in the last few years--and see how I said "last few years" and not "what you did 10 years ago or in the folly of your youth?" And only someone who is incomprehensibly narcissistic, ignorant about HPV, or both, would consider a woman's desire to avoid CANCER to be a "hang-up." Some of us are too old to get the shot. That doesn't mean we are immune to what certain strains of HPV can do to us.

In my life I had tons of sex with regular women, sometimes even without condom and visited many many hookers as well. I get constantly tested and till this day I had never a std. Sometimes I think I'm immune to stds or I was lucky. Dont need to judge me. Not proud of it.
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Old 05-11-2016, 06:43 PM
 
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I take it you've never heard of human trafficking? Sexual slavery? Forced prostitution?

That affects everyone, as does the attitude toward women that men who frequent hookers develop, that of "get over it" in the face of criminal sexual activity.



Source for that statement?
So you think humans would care for something like human trafficking as bad as it is. Human dont care what is so far away from them. Do meat eaters care that millions of animals live in absoluetly horrible conditions, animals who have feelings, can experience love, pain and grief. Do western people care if terrorists kill children in Pakistan as much as if this would happen in Europe or USA. NO. People should accept that we arent those lovely creatures with empathy through the roof.
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Old 05-11-2016, 09:07 PM
 
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I care....
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Old 05-11-2016, 09:28 PM
 
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I'm constantly toughing sick people so I change gloves 20x a day so as to have a barrier between sick and me.

If I were constantly having sex because it was my profession I would use precautions as well, you sleep with everyone your partner has, in a sense.

I think it would almost be better that he visited a prostitute, brothel or escort than some barfly who isn't into cleanliness...
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Old 05-12-2016, 07:12 AM
 
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There have been a lot of threads about virgins recently and it's interesting how many people often suggest escorts. Yet I've wondered if these same women would still respect somebody if they found out he lost his virginity to a hooker. Or indeed if any woman would.

So I figured I'd ask. Say you knew a guy who lost his virginity to a escort, would you still date him?
I lost mine to an escort. I'm thinking of keeping it hidden in the future for that reason.
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Old 05-12-2016, 07:19 AM
 
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Depends on how long ago his last 'encounter' was.
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