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Old 11-13-2014, 09:22 AM
 
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I'm going to pretty much act like she doesn't exists, and move on. I dont mind taking things slow but I won't hang around like a puppy and get strung along either. I can't give her that power.
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Old 11-13-2014, 09:51 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I'm going to pretty much act like she doesn't exists, and move on. I dont mind taking things slow but I won't hang around like a puppy and get strung along either. I can't give her that power.
You just said you really, really like her, but here you sound resentful. Don't think of relationships as who has power over whom.
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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What is so complex about the word "no"?
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I'm going to pretty much act like she doesn't exists, and move on. I dont mind taking things slow but I won't hang around like a puppy and get strung along either. I can't give her that power.

Listen man, if she's letting you hit it, keep on hitting it. You can't lose if she's giving it to you commitment free
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:07 AM
 
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You just said you really, really like her, but here you sound resentful. Don't think of relationships as who has power over whom.
I didn't mean to sound resentful. I do really really like her. I am just rebuilding my defense, that's all but in regards to what you said about power, I have a female friend who was talking about her BF one time and said "I like it when the guy likes me more". And I asked her why. She said, " so I have more power in the relationship "....Real talk! LOL when she said that, I couldn't believe my ears. People like that do exist.
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:08 AM
 
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What is so complex about the word "no"?
I'm talking about the " leading on"she seemed to be doing. Read the OP.
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:09 AM
 
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Listen man, if she's letting you hit it, keep on hitting it. You can't lose if she's giving it to you commitment free
It didn't even get that far! LOL I wish to hell it did though.
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:10 AM
 
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Listen man, if she's letting you hit it, keep on hitting it. You can't lose if she's giving it to you commitment free
There you go. This post is what actually represent most men. And here we have the OP, a guy who is the 1%. I actually am pleasantly surprised that this guy, (OP) is upset that the woman he likes just want to hit it, no commitment.

This thread is just like what a woman should post but it's the other way around.

It's just refreshing.
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:12 AM
 
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It didn't even get that far! LOL I wish to hell it did though.
Forget my earlier post. So this is why you are ranting. You didn't get any. Wow. You DEFINITELY are not the 1%.
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Old 11-13-2014, 10:12 AM
 
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you don't sound like you "just" want sex from her.

Move on.

She is flat out telling you "I'm removing my part in this, so if you contuine it's at your own discretion"

Do you really think having issues with perceived "power" over the other this early on is going to translate in to anything good the further you two get in to whatever it is you're trying to have together?

You're both just going to end up playing head game with one another.
what's the point?

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