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Old 11-18-2014, 02:14 AM
 
Location: Kaliforneea
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cool First Post, bro

actually - not really
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Old 11-18-2014, 02:19 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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Ah, the epic stripper fail.

You're at fault for this for over-estimating your open-minded sexuality. It might hurt, but putting any blame on what you provided for him...it's like blaming a kid for enjoying the candy you just gave him.

And of COURSE he enjoyed the big breasted candy you paid for...who wouldn't?
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Old 11-18-2014, 02:59 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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If you both accept your responsibility for what happened, it will be a lot easier to get past this, if that is what you both want.

Treat it as a scientist would an experiment that didn't work: you've learned something (I hope). That's a positive.
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Old 11-18-2014, 03:21 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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Interesting!
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Old 11-18-2014, 04:53 AM
 
Location: Here
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You let the stripper that you paid for fluff him up and then fail to do your part with the release? What were you thinking or perhaps that was the intended result on your part all along? If additional intimacy on this level, albeit close but no cigar, bothers you this much introducing another party in your personal love life would be disastrous and should remain the realm of fantasy unless you are a masochist.
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Old 11-18-2014, 05:14 AM
 
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Classy bar you work at.
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Old 11-18-2014, 06:14 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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If you both accept your responsibility for what happened, it will be a lot easier to get past this, if that is what you both want.

Treat it as a scientist would an experiment that didn't work: you've learned something (I hope). That's a positive.
I agree. Part of openness is learning your limits.

Now it's time to make up and move on. Try to put a positive spin on it for both your sakes. It's what love's all about.
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Old 11-18-2014, 10:36 AM
 
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My guess this is totally made up.
Agreed, but I'm fascinated by the level of detail some of these posters go to with their one-time-use usernames and elaborate tales of relationship woes. Is it just for the fun of seeing what advice we'll offer their made-up character?
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Old 11-18-2014, 11:44 AM
 
Location: between Mars and Venus
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That's a huge drama not dilema. Don't cofuse dilema with drama.
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Old 11-18-2014, 12:12 PM
 
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you did trap him.....

DO NOT bring a 3rd person to the bedroom, you aren't ready for it.
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