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Old 11-22-2014, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I see men put *in a relationship* or *divorced* or *recently separated* and of course *married*.Just get rid of the cheater, you can't have two of you together.
Increasingly most of the people I know (regardless of gender) don't list their relationship status at all on facebook. If you're married, that's a bit different, since that's a legal status and a matter of public record anyway, but most people don't announce to the entire world every time they're dating someone. When I see people who do, I tend to assume they have some type of self-esteem issues or maybe just really enjoy drama or gossip.
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Old 11-23-2014, 12:31 AM
 
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Half the world is in famine. And meanwhile a poor girl is devastated her BF didn't add her as a friend on facebook.
Yes, this is apparently what the millennials occupy themselves with. And I thought youmy people were trending away from Facebook these days and leaving it to us old fogies.

In all seriousness, OP, people are being more cautious these days about what they share via social media.
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Old 11-23-2014, 12:41 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I see men put *in a relationship* or *divorced* or *recently separated* and of course *married*.Just get rid of the cheater, you can't have two of you together.
relationships statuses don't mean anything anyway because a woman who had married in her status was trying to holla at me on the down low. That is why it's called FAKEBOOK lol
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Old 11-23-2014, 01:40 AM
 
Location: Los Angeles
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Apparently you two doesn't have much problem with cheating on each other, then why bother by him not friending you on facebook??
It wasn't like you are asking him to change his status to show that he's in a relationship with you!
If only friending you would be such a drama, then he is certainly chating/ hooking up with someone there.

Do you want to spend every minute that he's not with you in person to worry about him cheating on you!!
Or wait, your relationship was build upon cheating........ so I guess enjoy it while it last!!
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Old 11-23-2014, 01:49 AM
 
Location: Queens, NY
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Increasingly most of the people I know (regardless of gender) don't list their relationship status at all on facebook. If you're married, that's a bit different, since that's a legal status and a matter of public record anyway, but most people don't announce to the entire world every time they're dating someone. When I see people who do, I tend to assume they have some type of self-esteem issues or maybe just really enjoy drama or gossip.
Lol, how does that make any sense?

I have friends on FB that list their relationship status (non-married that is), and they aren't the drama/gossip types, or have any self-esteem issues.
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Old 11-23-2014, 01:51 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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h.e.i.s.c.r.a.z.y s.e.e.m.s.
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Old 11-23-2014, 02:33 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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If I had a girlfriend, she'd be the very first woman I'd friend on Facebook. This guy sounds iffy to me. Find someone who respects you.
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Old 11-23-2014, 07:15 AM
 
Location: D.C.
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Why is this so important? I'm not on Facebook or Twitter. It's funny when I date women and tell them this and some have this puzzled look on their faces. Sorry, I've got much better ways to spend my time. I stay in touch with friends and family by phone or in person.
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Old 11-23-2014, 07:20 AM
 
Location: City Data Land
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You're joking right??? what a completely ridiculous things to say.....

Every FB friend I have his SO/spouse is in most pics......

Jeezus.....
I agree with that. Although I normally think these FB complaint threads are stupid and shallow, this is a warning sign for OP. Bf sounds like he still has a wandering eye. But if she also cheated, I don't think she has any right to complain. I think they should either agree to see other people, or break up.
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Old 11-23-2014, 08:51 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Why is this so important? I'm not on Facebook or Twitter. It's funny when I date women and tell them this and some have this puzzled look on their faces. Sorry, I've got much better ways to spend my time. I stay in touch with friends and family by phone or in person.
But these two are on Facebook. I get not updating your relationship status, I get not posting pictures of the two of them. What I do not get is why his GF would be restricted from access to his whole page. What is he hiding from her?

Both hubby and I have a couple of people who are restricted from seeing our pages. Easier to do that than unfriend them entirely and possibly stir up a commotion. (One is a relative)
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