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Old 11-24-2014, 12:55 AM
 
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Ehh, my husband and I usually have sex 4-6x a week. We have had our lulls, but we have not gone any longer than 2 weeks without having sex.... And by the end of those two weeks we were both very cranky. Since I have been pregnant my hormones have been in overdrive and I want it even more, but because of pregnancy fatigue it's been harder. We still manage to squeeze out at least 3-4x a week. And yup,my period does not stop us, it is the miracle known as an Instead cup that keeps everything nice and clean.

All that being said sex every single day for 30 days would wear me the hell out. I would be more agreeable if it was some form of love making, and doesn't have to be sex. Like one night sex, next night blowjob, etc, another night cuddling. Just as long as there is some sort of intimacy involved I would check mark that day off.
Yep, that sounds like a good idea. We forgot about that time of the month until reading the comments, sooo... sex would pretty much not happen for us (hubby's choice), but other stuff can.

In addition to lack of sex, there really has been very little intimacy as far as hugs, cuddling, etc. Would love if this helps jump start that area of our relationship again.
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Old 11-24-2014, 01:45 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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When the red rivers flowin', take the dirt road. lol!
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Old 11-24-2014, 01:48 AM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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I'm sure the women that have problems in that department are relieved that Mother Nature is going to fix it next time.
"Mother Nature" works in many strange, mysterious ways.
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Old 11-24-2014, 01:53 AM
 
Location: In a happy, quieter home now! :)
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I recommend you two include a bucket of chicken one time in there...eat it in bed.
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Old 11-24-2014, 02:19 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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When the red rivers flowin', take the dirt road. lol!
That's a rough ride....but a fun one
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Old 11-24-2014, 02:23 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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I want to read all the comments but I can't now. Day 2 today and we were so pissed at each other today. Spent the whole day arguing and bickering.

So we didn't get around to afternoon sex like I had planned. Almost 10 now, kids are in bed, and we're about to do it. Neither of us want to, but we can't fail on day 2. Not with as good as day 1 was... Got all cleaned up and ready. I think if we both weren't so stubborn as to lose on day 2, we'd just call it quits for the night.

Still pissed at him though. UGH.
are you two with big attitudes may be? Try to find out where the issues are, may be both of your minds are gone out of the marriage.
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Old 11-24-2014, 04:29 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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That's a rough ride....but a fun one
So long as your wheels fit in the ruts, you're good to go.
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Old 11-24-2014, 05:46 AM
 
Location: Somewhere in a Field of Hopes and Dreams
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This might be tough on the hubs. Even being with a woman you love, its just hard to get it in with the same woman every day for 30 days straight. Men need variety. After about 15-17 days, I see the husband finding a way to shut the show down.

Woman hate to hear it, but many men stick around simply because you are the mother of their child. To get busy 30 days in a row, might require him here and there to put his mind in another place. Women have the benefit of just being able to lay around and take it
It's so tragic that you think you speak for every man.

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Wow. You are so wrong! A lot of men think they've died and gone to heaven when they find a woman who's raring to go every day. 30 days? Try 365 days. It's because of guys like you that some women need more than one guy.
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Sex everyday sounds awesome, but most women that need more than one guy are not the best picks when getting married.
But wait, that's what you got from Ruth's post? Point just flew right over your head didn't it

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Old 11-24-2014, 05:48 AM
 
Location: Somewhere in a Field of Hopes and Dreams
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Just plain regular sex every day ends up feeling like a chore. It might be more fun to make a list of different things to do each day.
Making a list would resemble a chore "to-do" list--no pun intended there with the "to-do."
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Old 11-24-2014, 07:15 AM
 
Location: Northern Wisconsin
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I hope I"m wrong, but her last response got me to thinking. Is this a make it a break it test? It doesn't sound like a happy home or a happy couple that just forgot to have sex cause they were so busy.
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