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Hi, today I went on a first date with a girl I met through tinder two days ago. We went for coffee and spent three hours hours together, she seem interested in what I talked and in my life. We laughed a lot, and she never took her cellphone to answer any messages in those 3 hours. I asked her what sport does she practice and she told me that tennis and I told her that I also play tennis so she told me that we should play one day together. She looked me a lot in the eyes, then she asked me what plans I had for the weekend. At the end of the coffee we parked our cars in more or less in the same are so she went walking with me to the parking lot. She said goodbye and told her that if she wanted to go to the movies on the weekend and she told me that we can see bird man or any other movie. I texted her telling her that I had a good time and that we laughed a lot and that I expect her to see her on the weekend. She replied: The same, I had a good time, it sounds like a good plan to go to the movies. So then I told her that I was going to sleep and said good night and good luck with the homework she had to do in the night and she told me: hey thanks!, have a good night. have some rest.
My question is: What she answered me sounds like she is interested?. For arranging the second date would it be better to call her or text her?
She sounds interested. I would say call her unless you are teenagers and obsessed with texting.
Why do you think she sounds interested?, wasn't her text response a bit dry and unemotional?. For arranging the second date would it be better to text instead of calling?. I think that calling might seem a bit clingy after the first date
Why do you think she sounds interested?, wasn't her text response a bit dry and unemotional?. For arranging the second date would it be better to text instead of calling?. I think that calling might seem a bit clingy after the first date
Dry and unemotional? Exactly why you should call her rather than text her. You can tell a lot more from someone's voice than through a text. Calling is not clingy. Just take charge, call her and say "Let's go to the 7 pm showing of XYZ movie and then get some pizza and beer afterwards. I'll pick you up at 6:30. Sound good?"
Why do you think she sounds interested?, wasn't her text response a bit dry and unemotional?. For arranging the second date would it be better to text instead of calling?. I think that calling might seem a bit clingy after the first date
Yes, she seems interested.
Re: the bolded, it was a first date. Did you expect her to say, "I love you!!"?
CALL HER tomorrow and ask her to a specific movie on a specific day and ask what time works for her.
I cannot believe you have left her hanging out there this long without setting a day and time for your date to see Birdman. She all but hit you over the head with it.
Don't be surprised if she has already moved on as a result. You are acting like a clueless, frightened little kitten.
Hi, today I went on a first date with a girl I met through tinder two days ago. We went for coffee and spent three hours hours together, she seem interested in what I talked and in my life. We laughed a lot, and she never took her cellphone to answer any messages in those 3 hours. I asked her what sport does she practice and she told me that tennis and I told her that I also play tennis so she told me that we should play one day together. She looked me a lot in the eyes, then she asked me what plans I had for the weekend. At the end of the coffee we parked our cars in more or less in the same are so she went walking with me to the parking lot. She said goodbye and told her that if she wanted to go to the movies on the weekend and she told me that we can see bird man or any other movie. I texted her telling her that I had a good time and that we laughed a lot and that I expect her to see her on the weekend. She replied: The same, I had a good time, it sounds like a good plan to go to the movies. So then I told her that I was going to sleep and said good night and good luck with the homework she had to do in the night and she told me: hey thanks!, have a good night. have some rest.
My question is: What she answered me sounds like she is interested?. For arranging the second date would it be better to call her or text her?
I don't know you tell me. You spent time with her, you know who she is, you should have a general idea of what she likes, you should make the decision to ask for a second date or not.
It is all your choice, your life and your decision.
Why do you think she sounds interested?, wasn't her text response a bit dry and unemotional?. For arranging the second date would it be better to text instead of calling?. I think that calling might seem a bit clingy after the first date
Oh for God's sake, how can text be anything but unemotional? It's typed words on a screen!! Take it from someone who was dating before texting existed: calling is not clingy. This is one of the most ridiculous things I have ever read on this forum, and that's saying a lot!!
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