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Old 05-26-2015, 01:02 AM
 
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Recon5 (and anyone else out there who suffers from a lack of relationships and some type of social anxiety disorder)- I would read a book called the Love-Shy Survival Guide by Talmer Shockley-it is written for people who suffer from the exact problem you are dealing with and practical and sound advice on how to deal with the situation.

 
Old 05-26-2015, 01:27 AM
 
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Reading this thread just shows me that you people are mean, angry people on here. Instead of giving advice you just throw out insults.
 
Old 05-26-2015, 01:53 AM
 
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Reading this thread just shows me that you people are mean, angry people on here. Instead of giving advice you just throw out insults.
U having a bad day? Cuz this is the 2nd post you've made today along these lines. We must be reading 2 different threads, cuz I didn't see hardly any insults on here. For a CD-R thread, it went pretty well. There was some good advice, too.
 
Old 05-26-2015, 09:50 PM
 
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U having a bad day? Cuz this is the 2nd post you've made today along these lines. We must be reading 2 different threads, cuz I didn't see hardly any insults on here. For a CD-R thread, it went pretty well. There was some good advice, too.
It's none of your business what kind of day I'm having.
 
Old 05-29-2015, 01:33 PM
 
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It's none of your business what kind of day I'm having.
exactly
 
Old 05-29-2015, 01:43 PM
 
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OP, get out of books. Drop the beta/alpha nonesense (again, that sounds like it is out of a book or research paper, and not out of actual human interaction).
If only. Sounds more like a PUA website.
 
Old 08-07-2015, 10:46 PM
 
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Recon5- here is a website and online forum for people who have problems similar to yours
Love-shy.com: Support for the dating-challenged -
 
Old 08-07-2015, 10:51 PM
 
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Is this behavior abnormal? especially for a man who would like women in his life(I'm 23)? Not even in high school have I flirted/pursued a woman. I don't know what's wrong with me. But I made this realization just now. I was reading this book and it said a man should approach a woman who he is attracted to, by making her attracted to him by building attraction through flirting. A typical mistake beta males make is try to become her friend and then try to build attraction.

I realize I wasted so much of my life and missed out on a lot. All the girls(in my age group) I know are on a "high, bye" relationship with me. Initially a girl will tolerate my company but then later she will try to avoid or simply greet and leave ASAP.

I'm considering meeting with this one escort so I can touch a woman and gain experience with them quickly. Only thing stopping me right now is that I'm cheap.
No one on this forum can help my friend.

You are literally at 0, compared to me, I would say I'm in the high 80's- I have an issue with approaching but once I do it's game over. You have an issue with women all together. You probably grew up in a weak household or an abusive one, it's not your fault but you can improve yourself by yourself, I did. If you want more insight on I how I improved, PM me. There is

way too much to cover to even write in one post.

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Recon5- here is a website and online forum for people who have problems similar to yours
Love-shy.com: Support for the dating-challenged -
Don't go to this site, It's self loathing and pathetic. The people who are "Love-Shy" are avoiding responsibility to actually improve and instead accept their crappy self. Never stop improving.
 
Old 08-08-2015, 04:14 PM
 
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Recon5- here is a website and online forum for people who have problems similar to yours
Love-shy.com: Support for the dating-challenged -
Lmao! Is "love shy" even a real disorder?

These guys on there sound like whiny children.
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