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Soon to be ex-boyfriend sounds like a real winner. I invite anyone I'm in a relationship to go through whatever they want. Sounds like there's a bunch of people with stuff to hide posting here.
I have nothing to hide and neither does Mr. CSD however, we do respect each other's privacy in regards to phones, emails, voice mails and my Journal.
All is available to each other any time but we just don't feel the need to snoop into those things.
Everyone is allowed their privacy and there is no rule against it even when you are a couple.
Soon to be ex-boyfriend sounds like a real winner. I invite anyone I'm in a relationship to go through whatever they want. Sounds like there's a bunch of people with stuff to hide posting here.
Seriously, I was this close to posting this....
Lol all the women who say they don't look--
Either have something to hide, themselves or.....
Probably know that if they actually went through their guy's phones they'd find something.
Ignorance is bliss.....
Seriously, I was this close to posting this....
Lol all the women who say they don't look--
Either have something to hide, themselves or.....
Probably know that if they actually went through their guy's phones they'd find something.
Ignorance is bliss.....
That's why snooping through someone's phone is never a good idea.
No matter what you find on a person whether it be cheating, clowning, etc, you're still the a$$hat that went in his phone.
OP you obviously went snooping for a reason and you got your feelings hurt. I personally think that you may be being a little too sensitive. Sometimes guys poke fun at their SO's and vice-versa. Not necessarily because they don't respect them, but because they like to get a laugh from people.
Like my girlfriend lives with her parents, never lived on her own and she's almost 29. She never has cooked a meal for me in the 2.5 years together. I've rubbed fun at her in the past but I have admittedly made fun about the fact that she's never cooked me a meal with one of my buddies. Nothing to really make a big deal about, it's just ribbing.
The fact of the matter is, that's a sore spot for you. The fact that you are not at a point in your life at the moment where you are making the $$$ you want hits a nerve. You can't really confront your bf about the conversation without admitting that you didn't trust him enough to not go through his phone.
If it bothers you so much, you might ask to have a heart- to- heart talk with him and ask him if he really sees a future with you and why. Get him to honestly talking about things and if it's an issue that you're not making as much money as he would like for you to.
Just please don't continue doing what you're currently doing and avoiding his call. I as a guy, hate it when a woman does that. They're all of a sudden angry and they don't want to tell you why. That's a way to kill a relationship all in itself. Perhaps that's what you're intending to do, but that won't bring you closure and you'll always carry that chip on your shoulder.
Seriously, I was this close to posting this....
Lol all the women who say they don't look--
Either have something to hide, themselves or.....
Probably know that if they actually went through their guy's phones they'd find something.
Ignorance is bliss.....
I never looked at my ex's phones, only if he was showing me something on it.
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Soon to be ex-boyfriend sounds like a real winner. I invite anyone I'm in a relationship to go through whatever they want. Sounds like there's a bunch of people with stuff to hide posting here.
