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Old 12-23-2014, 10:30 AM
 
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The not contacting thing, it only happened after the break up, because previously he would contact me almost everyday and we would skype every other day. I'm now wondering Was it cause of what I've done ?
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:03 AM
 
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The not contacting thing, it only happened after the break up, because previously he would contact me almost everyday and we would skype every other day. I'm now wondering Was it cause of what I've done ?
You two broke up. Daily or frequent contact would defeat the purpose of either a break (which he wanted) or a breakup (which you wanted). Give the poor guy some space.
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:25 AM
 
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Leave him alone.

Move on.

More than like he wants a relationship where he can see the person daily or weekly. Someone else will come along.
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:35 AM
 
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Leave him alone.

Move on.

More than like he wants a relationship where he can see the person daily or weekly. Someone else will come along.
I was thinking the same too.

Also, its the Holidays Christmas and New Years.
That makes it harder to be alone.
Surround yourself with good friends, some good food, and some exercise.
That should help
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:37 AM
 
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How do you fall in love with someone who left after 6 weeks? Especially someone from another country? This should be filed under "fling"
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Old 12-23-2014, 11:46 AM
 
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How do you fall in love with someone who left after 6 weeks?
Research says it is possible. As for someone from another country, what are you, a racist? No we saw each other a lot during that period, even took a trip together.
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Old 12-23-2014, 12:04 PM
 
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Time to face reality, it's over. LDR are very difficult, if you're already having major problems now then it's basically the death knell for your little fling. Best to move on as best you can. Crying and blubbering over skype is not going to make anything improve so get yourself together and stop doing it.
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Old 12-23-2014, 12:28 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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We were long distance for 8 months. And he calls me his gf sometimes and bought me presents. I was wondering if my messages scared him. Is it reeally over or is there a chance this might work out ?
It's really over. There is no chance it might work out. Move on.
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Old 12-24-2014, 04:13 AM
 
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Research says it is possible. As for someone from another country, what are you, a racist? No we saw each other a lot during that period, even took a trip together.

Oh for crying out loud !!!!
Really!!!!

Is that the point of your thread to stir a race card???!!!
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Old 12-24-2014, 04:26 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Research says it is possible. As for someone from another country, what are you, a racist? No we saw each other a lot during that period, even took a trip together.


WTF? This doesn't even make sense. lol

That's like saying:

"I don't like Canadians, or Americans"

"Oh you don't? You're a racist!!!"

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