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When we met, my husband was thirsty for this tall drink of water. It worked.
(FTR, my husband did and still does all those things on the list. He was one of the few I had ever met that did those "things." I never expected them, but they sure as heck didn't hurt his chances with me. )
Exactly. The men that do do these things...well, we know why they do. And so do they.
Dissenter, there's a part of me that gets you and a lot the younger man's issue. On a certain level I can get what your talking about, your generation has been blasted with women being equal and all that goes with it... I mean equal access, equal rights, etc etc.. I get it...
There is mixed messages that seem to be inundating the millennial... I get it to a degree.... if we're all equal why all the fuss around this chivalry stuff, why do I have to make efforts to be chivalrous, we're all equal right???????
I get the mixed messages... I can understand to a degree the reluctance, even its' subconscious to a degree... but it's there..... there is a power shift and or a power grab that the ladies have done...right??? I mean women just don't get it right??? LOL LOL
Why should a man have to put more effort into a woman when were all equal... why do I have to put out the effort when she's just as equal as me??????
Why do I have to subjugate myself and make her more special than me????
All of those feelings are somewhat natural... I think that were in a weird place in our society, in development of our feelings and how all this stuff ties together.......
The social mores.. and the genetic conditioning... which is what and where does it all stand...........
WTF is the right route??? some of these are legit questions that young people face.
My school... the old school 40' plus generation has it somewhat figured out... I don't care how and what we do... I know how most women my age think and I can relate.. and they can relate.... we can seem to meet.
The younger generation no so much... just based on some of the message here... and the messages of society... makes things interesting for the future.....
This is in no way..indicative of anything academic... most likely just a mans simple observations while eating a PB and J sandwich.....
I do practically everything on that list at an unconscious level. Guess ma' mammy raised me right.
If you think it's pathetic, that's fine. Sad, but...whatever.
Not pathetic
Where I was raised, we didn't have many doors to open, chairs to pull out (most everybody ate on the floor with their hands) and nobody wore jackets, Lol
I never said they don't like doing so, or that they don't have fun doing so. Modern life doesn't really allow for it. It has all but disappeared. At least in places I've lived. Working 60/80 hr weeks in a professional rat race isn't conducive to it. I know very few people, even those that love cooking, that have time to actually cook or eat at home. The closest they come to it is watching iron chef or whatever on an ipad on the commuter rail.
Yikes. That is awful. I am the opposite. MOST of the people I know, do cook and eat at home. Heck my co-workers frequently share recipes and talk about their latest masterpiece,, and bring home-cooked treats in quite often. I have no desire to be in that 60-80 hour rat face, thank you very much.
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