Men, how would you like your date to act?

[Hivemind31]

Originally Posted by Cristo666

Still though, a woman that places so much emphasis on sex would be incompatible with me long-term (and would, presumably, be more likely to cheat) and I don't believe that she would make a good mother, which is my primary reason for dating.

Nobody said anything about "so much emphasis on sex" either. You're reading too much into those posts.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by Cristo666

I disagree. I think an extremely high interest in sex (to the point that it outweighs everything else) is a sign of poor character and immorality, especially for women. It's a representation of our society, which seeks instant gratification and pleasure above all else.

But I'm looking for a potential mother to my children, not someone to just have fun with.

I'm a highly educated professional myself and I avoid women that think this way like the plague.

Nobody said it outweighs everything else. And "especially for women"? You have a sick double standard and it sounds like you're looking for a possession with the "mother of my children". Note to you, they're her children too. They aren't just yours.

And BTW, I'm a highly educated (masters from a top ten program in my field) professional as are the majority of people I date. It has nothing to do with thinking a certain way other than realizing, wisely, without sexual compatibility there is ZERO POINT ZERO chance for a healthy relationship. So it isn't above anything, it just needs to be there to have any hope of working.

Originally Posted by Cristo666

Still though, a woman that places so much emphasis on sex would be incompatible with me long-term (and would, presumably, be more likely to cheat) and I don't believe that she would make a good mother, which is my primary reason for dating.

So has a healthy sex drive and likes sex means she is less likely to be a good mother? You clearly haven't dated many good mothers. This isn't the 1950s anymore.