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25 yrs old and no gf. My 2 younger brothers have girlfriends. Practically all my buddies from college have girlfriends or fiances. Just went downstairs to a Christmas party at my house that my parents were having for members of our church ... practically every guy in his 20s was with a girlfriend.
Had a girl who wanted to hang out with me two Sundays ago, so I think I'll call her up and arrange get-together.
25 yrs old and no gf. My 2 younger brothers have girlfriends. Practically all my buddies from college have girlfriends or fiances. Just went downstairs to a Christmas party at my house that my parents were having for members of our church ... practically every guy in his 20s was with a girlfriend.
Had a girl who wanted to hang out with me two Sundays ago, so I think I'll call her up and arrange get-together.
That is the most worthwhile thing you said in your post.
Quit wasting time feeling sorry for yourself and get busy.
get over it dude, go get laid. escort or whatever. break the fricken mindset that you are an incomplete man without being emotionally committed to a woman --that is your number one mistake. any guy who has these "will i ever get a gf?" thoughts is a loser in the eyes of most women. so stop it. women want men they can respect, and that does not include needy guys who need a woman to help them be more of a man.
you are 25 dammit. when i was your age i was loving the fact that i could f*ck one chick yet still be "in love" (emotionally committed) with another one. yeah, the old theory that men can have emotionless sex (these days women can too btw, especially with less sl*t shaming concerns).
here is my 2 cents for any guy in their 20s/30s: focus on getting laid as often as possible, and somewhere along the way you will find a keeper. guaranteed. focus on sexual release first then emotional satisfaction. and i don't know about you but i could never really determine if a woman had LTR potential in my eyes until "the sex part was out of the way". like you i couldn't really see things clearly until after i had nutted and had a sense of whether i wanted that entree on a regular basis.
and oh yeah, don't be surprised if the ladies think differently, like saying "hang in there and just be yourself", that never helped me get laid or get a gf that's for sure. man up: become a sex predator (within legal means of course). think women are turned on by nice guys or guys who want to bang their brains out, pull their hair and screw them like no other dude??? look around at who is getting laid these days, in a relationship with a good looking woman and take a good guess.
happy holidays.
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