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Old 12-28-2014, 04:18 PM
 
Location: The Triad
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I had sex with my best friend...what do I even do now?
Did you like it? If so then do it again.
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Old 12-28-2014, 04:19 PM
 
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What do you do? You talk to her.

i don't know how else to say it.
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Old 12-28-2014, 04:32 PM
 
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Since her boyfriend is out of the picture and you've already crossed that line, why not have more sex?
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Old 12-28-2014, 04:34 PM
 
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Since my wife is my best friend, I don't really see a problem with this.
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Old 12-28-2014, 04:52 PM
 
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Ewwww you lost me at sucking her feet.
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Old 12-28-2014, 04:53 PM
 
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Next time you talk to her, verify the BF is still gone and then ask her what she thinks about this new situation.
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Old 12-28-2014, 04:54 PM
 
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Ewwww you lost me at sucking her feet.
If someone has a foot fetish and cheats, do they get off on the wrong foot?
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Old 12-28-2014, 04:58 PM
 
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She broke up with her b/f and now she's zeroed in on you as the rebound guy. I don't know how you plan to pursue this, but both of you need to sit down and have a serious talk about what to do at this point. Strange but true, sometimes sex can ruin a close friendship. Do you want just friends or do you want to take it further?
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Old 12-28-2014, 05:08 PM
 
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I would proceed as normal including the benefits. Eventually you will become exclusive or move on. Don't put any pressure on her or act weird...roll with it and see what happens next. Obviously you care for each other if you've been best friends for five years.
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Old 12-28-2014, 05:10 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Send her some flowers with a card that says, "I'll always be your friend, no matter what."
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