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Here's a different and possibly odd way of thinking about your situation.
Knowing yourself like you do, what percentage of girls would you say you could fall in love with if you went on a date or 2? is it a small percenate or a big one? In other words, are you the type of person who could "fall in love" with almost anyone you dated if the date went really well?
I think its really important to know thyself. If you know that you can fall in love easy, maybe its just you falling in love with the idea of being in love? People who want to be in love have an easier time convincing themselves they ARE in love, no matter who the other person happens to be.
Also, i know for sure that the younger i was, the harder it was to get in and out of love. The last thing you want to do however is to let this situation scar you emotionally. Because it didnt work out with this girl you met, don't let that interfere with the next time you're in this situation. Fall as hard as you did the first time, its very important that you embrace the PROCESS and understand that if you let the "hurt" affect you going forward, its only going to make your life less enjoyable.
I even suggested that I would visit her more often than she visited me.
The above statement sums up the core of the problems with the relationship. You are communicating to her that your time is less important than hers. Never make someone else your whole world, become your own planet.
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