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Don't fall for this. With bank tellers, it's always a ploy. They know how much you have in the bank, the size of your monthly deposits, your spending habits. Think about it, they see the checks that come in, they know how much you spend on clothes, hobbies, rent or mortgage, everything. Kind of creepy. Stalker heaven!
Don't fall for this. With bank tellers, it's always a ploy. They know how much you have in the bank, the size of your monthly deposits, your spending habits. Think about it, they see the checks that come in, they know how much you spend on clothes, hobbies, rent or mortgage, everything. Kind of creepy. Stalker heaven!
Just because she sees your accounts, doesn't mean you can't have some fun. If things get weird, just switch to another branch.
I go to the bank to withdraw cash often to avoid ATM machines for security reasons. I visit various tellers but there is this one teller and sometime she chats with me while serving. She always talks about tennis whether I bought a new racquet since I told her one day I like playing tenns, even told me about some courts. I sometime feel she hopes I would invite her out for a day to play tennis with me. She told me she never played before.
To me I would feel a bit awkward that I'm hanging out/date with someone who knows what is in my bank account.
What would you guys do?
if she really seems interested in you, as you seem to be in her, then ask her out. suggest that you two play tennis some week end. see what happens. remember fortune favors the bold.
I caught my current ex with his bank teller a week and a half after I dumped him (I dumped him for good reason, not to do with his bank teller). When asked, he sheepishly told me that she wanted him and that I didn't. She gave him her phone number two months prior... I found out later than she didn't last past a few weeks with him, not enough in common. He's loaded financially, so I'm sure that has something to do with the her chase.
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Originally Posted by Twin Peaks
Don't fall for this. With bank tellers, it's always a ploy. They know how much you have in the bank, the size of your monthly deposits, your spending habits. Think about it, they see the checks that come in, they know how much you spend on clothes, hobbies, rent or mortgage, everything. Kind of creepy. Stalker heaven!
If a guy is loaded and he just wants to screw around then a bank teller with bad intentions, like the ones mentioned in this thread, would be his type of thing. These girls get seduced/turned-on by his wealth, he screws them no strings attached, and these girls enjoy a night of luxuries (fancy dinner, fancy bar, etc.). But if a guy is looking for a relationship maybe these kind of bank tellers wouldn't be a good idea.
Make a lot of money, so that when she sees your bank account, she asks you out. Bam!
Honestly, just ask her out and see what happens, you've got nothing to lose at all. Don't confuse your self confidence and self worthy with what is in your bank account. Its a mistake many poor saps make.
I did that once. She was...well...Yowza. A finalist in a Miss Coppertone competition. I'd come be to deposit checks and she'd be awfully flirty. I was between girlfriends so, hey, why not?
Big mistake. On our first and only date she casually let slip that she knew how much I had in my personal and biz accounts.
We had another member in your same situation. The teller was flirting heavily with him. He finally took the bait. It was a train wreck. Most workplaces have rules against dating the customers.
I think Ruth is talking about me its been one heck of a roller coaster. Some things I haven't posted because you guys wouldn't believe it. We have been on and off since last March 2014. Still in contact with her. I think I really need to find somebody to make me forget her
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its been one heck of a roller coaster. Some things I haven't posted because you guys wouldn't believe it. We have been on and off since last March 2014. Still in contact with her. I think I really need to find somebody to make me forget her
