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You also contradicted yourself. Of course it depends on the person. I think looks are important to most people, but women tend to look at other factors: ie, the educational attainment of the person, his/her personality, their job, the way their s.o. treats others, etc in deciding whether to carry on a long term relationship with them.
Why do we have to date girls we're not attracted to. In my experience that often leads to problems that leave you in an even worse situation than if you had just left the girl alone in the first place.
Women should feel the same way. They may meet some nice guy and fall in love with him, or they might just meet a jerk of a different persuasion they weren't checking for because it is not the jerk they know.
The idea that women would deal with men they're not attracted to speaks to the ways in which women are conditioned to be accommodating to others in society, IMHO.
I . An "8" is an "8" because she looks like an 8. Women however have various things that can bring a guy up on the scale:
Man who looks like "6" can go up to an 8 through various and individual things: great personality, British accent, good job, being really funny or smart, having an "impressive" job like writer, being really charismatic, etc can all make a 6 an 8 for us. It does not mean we are okay with unattractive guys though, and if you're a 6 but also live at home and work at taco bell part time and are awkward socially, you have nothing to add to your "6" looks and won't be chosen by a girl who is an 8 herself.
Women however who are a "6" in looks have no other options to get an "8" guy, because looks are almost the entire scale.
I'm reading your post and I get to this part, and I'm like, girl!
You really going to go their with sizes of the male anatomy and how to get it bigger
Then I realized what you were talking about. Whew!!
However women are much open-minded to having a one-night stand or being a booty call to an extremely good-looking guy. Whereas men don't require the girl to be so great-looking, maybe just average.
Women however who are a "6" in looks have no other options to get an "8" guy, because looks are almost the entire scale.
When it comes to sex though I see it all the time. A lot of great looking guys will sleep with a '6' because they don't have to put a lot of effort and it's not so time consuming.
But when there was a thread about what makes a person regulated to just being a FWB or Booty call most tend to ignore the looks factor.
I would women but just slightly more. Most women are more sensitive to not only their own looks but how they are perceived by there friends and peers. The multi billion dollar cosmetics industry is evidence of this and woman are far more reactionary to how their friends percieve thier new boyfriends. I noticed all of my women who I developed relationships with had to 'show me off', for lack of a better term to gain approval of family, friends, and peers. Most men are generally not worried about this type of behavior.
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