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Old 01-05-2015, 07:25 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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In general because girls never chase guys guys never get to know what girls want. Instead the model is guys approach girls and if they are what the girl wants then she accepts. That approach on a mass scale makes it a lot harder for guys in general to know what girls like, because they never really express what they want, they just accept it if it is, and only if it is chasing them. So ultimately because girls don't chase guys, there is considerably less guys that girls want.
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Old 01-05-2015, 07:32 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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What? Who chases at all? Past middle school that is.

And who worries about what girls like? If you're attracted to someone, ask them out. They'll say yes or no. Criminy. This is so damn easy. Stop over thinking about nonsense.
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Old 01-05-2015, 08:24 AM
 
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In general because girls never chase guys guys never get to know what girls want. Instead the model is guys approach girls and if they are what the girl wants then she accepts. That approach on a mass scale makes it a lot harder for guys in general to know what girls like, because they never really express what they want, they just accept it if it is, and only if it is chasing them. So ultimately because girls don't chase guys, there is considerably less guys that girls want.
That makes absolutely no sense whatsoever.
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Old 01-05-2015, 08:50 AM
 
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The way you describe human relationships is cartoonish. You need some real life experience.
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Old 01-05-2015, 09:17 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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In general because girls never chase guys guys never get to know what girls want. Instead the model is guys approach girls and if they are what the girl wants then she accepts. That approach on a mass scale makes it a lot harder for guys in general to know what girls like, because they never really express what they want, they just accept it if it is, and only if it is chasing them. So ultimately because girls don't chase guys, there is considerably less guys that girls want.



I've seen more sense at a Darwin pub at 12am on a Saturday.
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Old 01-05-2015, 09:26 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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In general because girls never chase guys guys never get to know what girls want. Instead the model is guys approach girls and if they are what the girl wants then she accepts. That approach on a mass scale makes it a lot harder for guys in general to know what girls like, because they never really express what they want, they just accept it if it is, and only if it is chasing them. So ultimately because girls don't chase guys, there is considerably less guys that girls want.
"Guys" and "girls" are all different and have different wants.

One girl might chase you and then you think you've learned something, but if you apply that to another girl at another time, it may not work.

Just get to know each person as an individual.
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Old 01-05-2015, 09:31 AM
 
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I don't chase anyone nor do I think anyone should chase anyone.
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Old 01-05-2015, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Runnning as fast as we can, can, can....
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Old 01-05-2015, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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What
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Old 01-05-2015, 03:32 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Actually it hit me when I was looking through profiles on craigslist. It seemed that w4w, w4m, and (assuming) m4m seemed to know what the post to get a response. When I looked at m4w though it was a complete disaster.

I saw a chart on here before where it basically showed that women in general simply aren't attracted to the average guy. So why is it that so many guys don't know what a woman wants and can't manage to be it?

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