I wonder what my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend looks like? (boyfriends, women, husband)
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I know it will be unpleasant, but it seems like a necessary bit of knowledge. I mean, he spent major portions of his day with her for five years. I'd rather know, than just imagine her to be prettier than me. Maybe she's just average, who knows. Haha.
Obsessions aren't healthy. What if she IS prettier than you? Are you going to torture him with your insecurities over it? Or what if she's not as pretty as you? Does that mean that she brought an incredible personality to the table, and then you'll have to wonder...was his love deeper for her than it is for you? Because there's no reason to want to see her picture if you aren't planning on some major comparisons.
Obsessions aren't healthy. What if she IS prettier than you? Are you going to torture him with your insecurities over it? Or what if she's not as pretty as you? Does that mean that she brought an incredible personality to the table, and then you'll have to wonder...was his love deeper for her than it is for you? Because there's no reason to want to see her picture if you aren't planning on some major comparisons.
Thanks, that's a good point.
Maybe it's better left unsaid.
Another thing though, my ex was pretty good looking, I almost feel like if I showed him he'd see that I'm the kind of girl an attractive man would be with, like if I'm in his league he'll have some kind of confirmation that I'm quality. Not that he's superficial like that, but it's slightly worth considering.
We've been talking about our experiences with our exes a lot and I wonder what she looked like. He was with her five years. I also kind of want to show him a picture of mine, whom I was with for four years. Is that weird? I want to spend the rest of my life with him. It seems like an information gap, not a very comfortable one but I think it's better to get it out of the way now rather than later. I remember when I first saw the picture of my ex and his ex-girlfriend a couple years into our relationship, and even though I knew he was with her, it still was dreadful to see it. Better sooner than later?
It's a self reflection thing.
You want to know who "beat you"
Do as you must to get your answers and feel better, but don't expect it to solve the under laying issue that drives you to need to know such things.
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