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You are on the government tit... that puts you in project girl camp...
Sorry...
You can say whatever the F you want, I'm telling you, as a man that is sort of in your demographic...
You are a straight up project girl.....LOL... the fact that you may be physically attractive doesn't jive with any man that has a brain.......
Please no guy I date even knows I get foodstamps. They see me show up in a $40k+ car, dressed nicely, wearing expensive jewelry. And based on my profile city, they can see I live in a pricier town. By appearance, no one would guess I get food stamps. Heck the value of my daily jewelry exceeds the value of a lot of peoples cars.
So you bringing up the foodstamps every chance you get really has no beating whatsoever on my dating life.
Please no guy I date even knows I get foodstamps. They see me show up in a $40k+ car, dressed nicely, wearing expensive jewelry. And based on my profile city, they can see I live in a pricier town. By appearance, no one would guess I get food stamps. Heck the value of my daily jewelry exceeds the value of a lot of peoples cars.
So you bringing up the foodstamps every chance you get really has no beating whatsoever on my dating life.
5 minutes in honey and I could size your cheap ass up and toss you.... don't think others couldn't......
I used to be attracted to "projects" until I realized the pattern and changed it. It's not that you're a magnet for those men, it's that those are the men you're going for. Changing that is up to you.
But that is the part I can't figure out how to change. I am not really going for them. Those are the types showing up in my inbox. My outbox is a whole different ball game.
I no longer even meet the ones that give a hint of being in the needy department, but that also means I gave not met any new men in 6 weeks.
I am taking a sabbatical from online dating for awhile anyway, but this is something I want to resolve in myself.
What do you mean cheap? What I am trying to say to you is that nothing about my life gives an impression of cheap. I am from a good family, good morals, good finances and carry myself in a way that is far from cheap.
What do you mean cheap? What I am trying to say to you is that nothing about my life gives an impression of cheap. I am from a good family, good morals, good finances and carry myself in a way that is far from cheap.
All of those things are relative. Good family? In what way? To whom? Good morals? Hell. Some people would immediately question the morals of any woman who had a kid out of wedlock. Especially guys in the God, mama, and NASCAR crowd. Good finances? Depends on what others think of as "good finances."
Take a look at the men you attract right now and the answer should be obvious to you.
I think it already is. You just don't like the answer that the universe is giving you.
You have the ability here in the good, old USA to elevate yourself into a higher social class. It would appear to the casual observer that you either do not want to or do not know how to do this.
The fact that you have zero interest in higher education or getting off assistance you do not need speaks to your mindset. That mindset comes across in the way you present yourself.
That's how you attract so many duds.
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