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Old 01-18-2015, 12:29 PM
 
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Hi There, I'm single now after my divorce in 07' .I'm independent and I've decided that the best match for me will be a military guy. He can be away ,(I'm ok with that) because I'm doing good by myself and I'm okay with long distance relation.
Is there any online dating website ?
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Old 01-18-2015, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Google says there's MilitaryCupid, MilitaryDating, and MilitaryFriends to name a few. There's a review of military datings sites on YouTube.

Buyer Beware.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cfgGg3ZA4UI
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Old 01-18-2015, 05:41 PM
 
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assuming there is no good dating site ...... so sad
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Old 01-18-2015, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque area
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If I may make a suggestion, if you are looking to make contact with a military man, skip the on-line dating sites and participate instead in one of the many organizations dedicated to sending cards, letters, gifts, books and sundries to our troops overseas. I would leave the dating angle out of any cards or letters, personally, just make it light and breezy. Perhaps a friendship will develop naturally -- as naturally as it can be when corresponding with a young man in a war zone or hot zone. You may or may not make a love connection but you will make a soldier's day.
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Old 01-18-2015, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Clovis Strong, NM
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If I may make a suggestion, if you are looking to make contact with a military man, skip the on-line dating sites and participate instead in one of the many organizations dedicated to sending cards, letters, gifts, books and sundries to our troops overseas. I would leave the dating angle out of any cards or letters, personally, just make it light and breezy. Perhaps a friendship will develop naturally -- as naturally as it can be when corresponding with a young man in a war zone or hot zone. You may or may not make a love connection but you will make a soldier's day.
Guess this could work for those of us guys wanting to meet single military women.

Works both ways and there's nothing better than good old fashioned, pen-paling.
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Old 01-18-2015, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Hi There, I'm single now after my divorce in 07' .I'm independent and I've decided that the best match for me will be a military guy. He can be away ,(I'm ok with that) because I'm doing good by myself and I'm okay with long distance relation.
Is there any online dating website ?
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assuming there is no good dating site ...... so sad
Sorry but this is just filled with many red flags we warn our Soldiers about.

Words such as BAH and Tricare come to mind as well as someone looking to become a dependapotamus.

The warning signs are there: claims to be doing good by herself and okay with a long distance relation. This is a leaders worst nightmare here.

Joe marries someone like this, signs over a power of attorney, leaves for deployment and comes back to nothing and no one. The senior leaders in here have seen this before.
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Old 01-18-2015, 07:31 PM
 
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Sorry but this is just filled with many red flags we warn our Soldiers about.

Words such as BAH and Tricare come to mind as well as someone looking to become a dependapotamus.

The warning signs are there: claims to be doing good by herself and okay with a long distance relation. This is a leaders worst nightmare here.

Joe marries someone like this, signs over a power of attorney, leaves for deployment and comes back to nothing and no one. The senior leaders in here have seen this before.
This was my exact thought as well. Call me cynical and skeptical, but I've seen it happen one time too many.

I just find it sort of funny that the OP has DECIDED that a military guy is the right match for her. It's just sort of weird.
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Old 01-18-2015, 07:39 PM
 
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I don't need anything from any poor soldier .I'm doing good by my own. The only one difference is I am real and I don't have a bad intentions. I had a bff at the Army long time ago and I found myself that I will be doing good with the Army man.
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Old 01-18-2015, 08:21 PM
 
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Please don't feed this. The men in our military have enough to worry about without adding to it.
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Old 01-19-2015, 01:23 AM
 
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Go to a military post, and post an add on the internet looking for a relationship (do not hint anything about money). Make sure you add the desire to get married.

Otherwise, get work as a civilian on a military post (think nurse, defac lady).

The key is to go where the source is at.
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