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Old 01-20-2015, 05:55 PM
 
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I'm all for that. The woman shouldn't act aloof or off-putting either. But moreso than the woman, the guy should be making an effort to make sure she's having a good time.
As much as society has conditioned you to believe so, we are not clowns here for your entertainment.
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Old 01-20-2015, 06:28 PM
 
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She will be very disappointed if that's what she expects.
I agree you can't just tell a shy anxious person not to be..

The bottom line is men are much more forgiving in that area then women are..
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Old 01-20-2015, 06:37 PM
 
Location: Northern VA (for now)
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As much as society has conditioned you to believe so, we are not clowns here for your entertainment.
Damn straight!
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Old 01-20-2015, 07:06 PM
 
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I don't believe this. I think a lot of shy passive/aggressive types post here (both genders).
Gotta agree here: the shy/introverted types LOVE to go off on internet forums. (didn't you know that everyone here is an INTJ?)
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Old 01-20-2015, 07:09 PM
 
Location: Middle of the ocean
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Gotta agree here: the shy/introverted types LOVE to go off on internet forums. (didn't you know that everyone here is an INTJ?)
I'm an INTJ.

I'm not shy, but I prefer more alone time than most.
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Old 01-20-2015, 07:18 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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I'm an INTJ as well.
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Old 01-20-2015, 07:20 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Gee, I never considered it anyone's responsibility to make the date a success. I always figured that if we got along well, enjoyed each other's sense of humor, were comfortable with each other - the date would take care of itself.
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Old 01-20-2015, 07:29 PM
 
Location: Northern VA (for now)
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Gotta agree here: the shy/introverted types LOVE to go off on internet forums. (didn't you know that everyone here is an INTJ?)
I'm ISTJ for anyone's reference.
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Old 01-20-2015, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I agree you can't just tell a shy anxious person not to be..

The bottom line is men are much more forgiving in that area then women are..
If a woman doesn't want to date me because I'm shy, her loss and I wouldn't really care. Then again, I don't date outgoing women anymore.
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Old 01-20-2015, 07:50 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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As much as society has conditioned you to believe so, we are not clowns here for your entertainment.
I do not think of men as clowns. Again, this was not created to be a man-bashing thread. I love men.
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