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Old 01-20-2015, 12:12 PM
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This would really **** me off. Not sure what I would do, but this is a perfect example of why marriage is generally a bad idea. Now you have to worry about losing your house and money to this hag because of the way women are favored in divorces in this country, instead of being able to tell her to get lost like any normal girlfriend.
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Old 01-20-2015, 12:30 PM
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It's tough to know for sure what is her deal.....It really depends on the way you both handled things when she cheated. If she was remorseful in her past actions, and mutually wanted to reconcile, then maybe she is just being paranoid that you are just getting back at her. She may also feel that if she is just catching you now, that this is something you have hidden from her. Every time you have gone to visit family without her, may be times that you have cheated on her.
Because she got caught before, and has previously thought that you were not the type....she may see this one time evidence as just the tip of the iceberg.....

Whenever someone gets caught cheating, everything doesn't come out.....no one wants to retell the deceptive practices they took in order to get away with it. She has the memories of her deception, and it probably has a stronghold on her thought process. Anytime someone exhibits cheating behaviors, her mind will spin out of control....She has always had the belief that you never would cheat.....but even with the weak and non existing proof, it got her head thinking. She sees that picture as a possibility that this whole time you haven't been as loyal as she thought. So now her mind thinks of any time in the past where you went away, or came home late, could have been when you went to "get yours"......It's funny how the mind plays tricks on the deceptive, by making them very sensitive to paranoid thoughts.

Her past may also be to blame, if she was cheated on by past boyfriends. If that's the case, she may just always assume that men cheat, and has always been waiting for the inevitable to happen....whatever the case may be, it's really her monkey, and it's up to her to either dump it, or continue to live with it looming on her back.
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Old 01-20-2015, 12:31 PM
Location: San Bernandino, CA
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Get a good lawyer
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