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Old 01-22-2015, 09:49 AM
 
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I hear ya love. It took me awhile to understand that concept with our friend. He insists that he will never go down that path ever again as well, yet I see the loneliness in him. I try my best to make him feel loved and special because he really is a good person. I too was unloved and unwanted as a child but some how I managed to get past it and learn to love myself. I think having been with the right partner made all the difference as well. I swear my John is a saint because sometimes I'm a handful and difficult to live with. All of our childhood baggage never fully disappears and keeping it in perspective is often difficult. OP I would suggest a close friendship with an older woman. Maybe you just need baby steps for now until you learn how to put that insecure anxiety in perspective.
I myself was unloved and unwanted. And to be honest, while I am past that, I still haven't learned to love myself the way I need to.
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Old 01-23-2015, 12:41 PM
 
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I myself was unloved and unwanted. And to be honest, while I am past that, I still haven't learned to love myself the way I need to.

Sorry love. I hope you find a way.
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