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View Poll Results: How long?
1 year 8 27.59%
2 years 10 34.48%
3 years 6 20.69%
4 years 2 6.90%
5 years + 1 3.45%
10 years + 2 6.90%
Voters: 29. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-20-2015, 05:40 PM
 
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Assuming you get married before 30.
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Old 01-20-2015, 05:53 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Depends.
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Old 01-20-2015, 06:14 PM
 
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Assuming you get married before 30.
There is no one right length of time....life doesn't come with a set of rules like that.

You do the best you can based on where you at emotionally.

I've known successful relationships that married after weeks...others took over a decade...and I've know unsuccessful ones in all time brackets as well.
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Old 01-20-2015, 06:17 PM
 
Location: Northern VA (for now)
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If you are with the Diss at least 5 years maybe we can discuss marriage.
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Old 01-20-2015, 06:23 PM
 
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Assuming you get married before 30.

Whatever length that would put you at least into your 30s.
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Old 01-20-2015, 06:32 PM
 
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i agree that there is no particular length of time to date before marriage. i have seen whirlwind romances that last a lifetime, and i have seen those that date for years then get married and then divorced within five years.
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Old 01-20-2015, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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I answered 2 years but also think if you are over 40 I wouldn't marry someone without going through at least 4 seasons with them. Under 30 definitely 2 years.
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Old 01-20-2015, 08:51 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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My take is this: if everything's ok after a year...you should talk things over. A long relationship is not good either.
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Old 01-20-2015, 08:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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When it feels right.
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Old 01-20-2015, 08:57 PM
 
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However long strangers on the internet tell you to.
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