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Old 04-14-2013, 08:35 PM
 
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I've never really liked having boyfriends, because I always liked going off and doing my own thing and not having to feel like I need to check in with someone everyday and spending all that time with them. But when I'm sick or it's late at night, I think, it'd be nice to have someone to cuddle with right now. Does anyone else feel this way? Yeah, it probably sounds selfish, only wanting someone when I need them, but if it's agreed, then it shouldn't be a problem, right? Has anyone ever had a cuddle buddy of the opposite sex with no sex involved? How do you get one? I cuddled with someone once but I think they wanted to date and I had no intentions of dating them.
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:36 PM
 
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I've never really liked having boyfriends, because I always liked going off and doing my own thing and not having to feel like I need to check in with someone everyday and spending all that time with them. But when I'm sick or it's late at night, I think, it'd be nice to have someone to cuddle with right now. Does anyone else feel this way? Yeah, it probably sounds selfish, only wanting someone when I need them, but if it's agreed, then it shouldn't be a problem, right? Has anyone ever had a cuddle buddy of the opposite sex with no sex involved? How do you get one? I cuddled with someone once but I think they wanted to date and I had no intentions of dating them.
Sounds more like FWB than anything else.
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:36 PM
 
Location: DC
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The SNUGGERY Home
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:37 PM
 
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And I don't mean this lol
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:38 PM
 
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Sounds more like FWB than anything else.
Yeah, I tried that too, but I ended up wanting more even I didn't really want more with them. I knew they weren't bf material but it still didn't feel good to be treated like a piece of meat.
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:39 PM
 
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I would pass. May as well hire a . No thanks.

If I snuggle with a woman it'll be with one who I at least care for and vice-versa.
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:39 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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cuddle buddy.... good lord.

any guy that says "I will be your cuddle buddy" deserves to have his balls chopped off
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:40 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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I've never really liked having boyfriends, because I always liked going off and doing my own thing and not having to feel like I need to check in with someone everyday and spending all that time with them. But when I'm sick or it's late at night, I think, it'd be nice to have someone to cuddle with right now. Does anyone else feel this way? Yeah, it probably sounds selfish, only wanting someone when I need them, but if it's agreed, then it shouldn't be a problem, right? Has anyone ever had a cuddle buddy of the opposite sex with no sex involved? How do you get one? I cuddled with someone once but I think they wanted to date and I had no intentions of dating them.
Unfortunately in our society touch of any sort almost = sex. It's unfortunate.
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:42 PM
 
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Yeah, I tried that too, but I ended up wanting more even I didn't really want more with them. I knew they weren't bf material but it still didn't feel good to be treated like a piece of meat.
That's a tough one then. Even if I said that you elaborate that cuddling is all you want you may still wind up wanting more.

I don't know the solution.
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Old 04-14-2013, 08:42 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I would pass. May as well hire a . No thanks.

If I snuggle with a woman it'll be with one who I at least care for and vice-versa.
I agree. Although that stuff animal man is getting fresh with that lady. Did you see his hand!
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