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Old 01-23-2015, 09:54 AM
 
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Yes I get it so basically I can't even be friends with this guy then? He will probably forget all about the things I said to him. Why is it a problem that he lives in another state?
Normally, When guys on OKc contract me and are not my area, they are scammer or they have issues.
You are getting very attach to him quickly without meeting him.
Posters are just worried because he could be dangerous and you end up on the 10pm news.
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:19 AM
 
Location: The last fluffy cloud on the horizon
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This whole thread makes little to no sense as the OP continues to field questions with new questions while failing to answer pertinent issues that were raised. I have a hard time believing that a 28 year old processes information like this. Which makes T R O L L I N G a definite possibility.

Just an FYI: This OP is also the same one that started the following thread under a different handle (SpringRain)
Can an older man actually fall in love with a younger woman?

There she was looking for a "late 40s" man to "fall in love" with her. Same MO, same answers, same BS.

/thread
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You didn't answer my question do you have something against long distance relationships as in friendships?
No, not if they start out as "in town" or "in person" relationships.

If they start out LDR, I am ALWAYS suspicious of motivations, judgment and authenticity.
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:24 AM
 
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So if it was more than just sex and I actually wanted to have a relationship with him would it be positive? So what if he lives in another state is that why you think it's a problem? Or is it because he has a mental illness?
Because you only know him online, he's over forty, and you still live with your parents. You seem to be looking for a Daddy and he just might wind up being your Dahmer.

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Old 01-23-2015, 10:34 AM
 
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Just because I still live at home does not mean I am looking for a 'daddy' I'm not looking for a daddy I already have one this has nothing to do with my father so please do not assume things because you are incorrect. My father has been in my life my entire life I do not have 'daddy issues' and you are wrong to even assume such a thing.

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Because you only know him online, he's over forty, and you still live with your parents. You are looking for a Daddy and he just might up being your Dahmer.
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:36 AM
 
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I guess all of us are wrong. So why are you here again?

We are just trying to keep you safe.
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:39 AM
 
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I'm not trolling I have no reason to troll yes I did create that thread I no longer use that screen name what are you trying to do expose me? I have nothing to hide at all. That was awhile ago and it was specifically about older men dating younger women. I don't field questions with new questions. I understand and comprehend everything that everyone has said. I asked if people have issues with LDR because it seems to be that way. People are just rude and nasty here that's all it boils down to. I've seen how people talk down about others on the other threads too.

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This whole thread makes little to no sense as the OP continues to field questions with new questions while failing to answer pertinent issues that were raised. I have a hard time believing that a 28 year old processes information like this. Which makes T R O L L I N G a definite possibility.

Just an FYI: This OP is also the same one that started the following thread under a different handle (SpringRain)
Can an older man actually fall in love with a younger woman?

There she was looking for a "late 40s" man to "fall in love" with her. Same MO, same answers, same BS.

/thread
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:43 AM
 
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No I'm not saying all of you are wrong but YOU are wrong to assume I have 'daddy issues' just because I like older men and still live at home. What gives you the right to assume that? Just because I still live at home? That's ridiculous I have a great father he has always been apart of my life. You people need to stop assuming things about others. Just like how I see people are calling men perverts just because they like younger women. All of you are way too judgmental about people who you do not even know.

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I guess all of us are wrong. So why are you here again?

We are just trying to keep you safe.
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:50 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So how do you know him?
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Old 01-23-2015, 10:52 AM
 
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Maybe you are way too trusting for your own safety.
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