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Old 01-21-2015, 09:03 PM
 
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Having sex with someone once after the first date is hardly entertaining a relationship, or anything further for that matter.
Would that count you out for anything further as well?

 
Old 01-21-2015, 09:04 PM
 
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Would that count you out for anything further as well?
Not sure I understand your phrasing. Her sleeping with me night one has no bearing on me not seeing her again. It was her annoying entitlement and princess attitude.
 
Old 01-21-2015, 09:05 PM
 
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She brought it up. She literally said " I am traditional" which I know is almost always BS so I asked her to clarify and she explained the $$$ and shopping. Then we covered cooking which she doesn't know how at all.

Which is sad.

I'm a single dude and cook 3/4 times a week, take leftovers to work etc. Much healthier that way.
Saves money too.

Honestly, I wouldn't waste too much time thinking about this... unless you keep running into this kind of woman over and over again. In which case, you have to ask yourself: is it bad luck or am I somehow drawing in this type that I don't like? Trust me, I've been asking the same thing about the men I've been dating recently.
 
Old 01-21-2015, 09:07 PM
 
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Saves money too.

Honestly, I wouldn't waste too much time thinking about this... unless you keep running into this kind of woman over and over again. In which case, you have to ask yourself: is it bad luck or am I somehow drawing in this type that I don't like? Trust me, I've been asking the same thing about the men I've been dating recently.
True but come on guys. I'm not on the internet for therapy. I'm here to kill some time with discussion.
 
Old 01-21-2015, 09:09 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yes. We know. Men do it too. Go away now please, you are contributing nothing here.
So are you seeing the chick still?
 
Old 01-21-2015, 09:19 PM
 
Location: Polynesia
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Thanks. Not lookin for advice. Curious if anyone else had ssimilar experiences with women using this comical line.
Well, I haven't seen anyone jump in to say that they've had similar experiences with women using this comical line. But the thread is still young. Don't worry, I feel confident that another male will soon appear with whom you can swap horror stories.
 
Old 01-21-2015, 09:23 PM
 
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Well, I haven't seen anyone jump in to say that they've had similar experiences with women using this comical line. But the thread is still young. Don't worry, I feel confident that another male will soon appear with whom you can swap horror stories.
Thanks, its very comforting to hear that.
 
Old 01-21-2015, 09:24 PM
 
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She brought it up. She literally said " I am traditional" which I know is almost always BS so I asked her to clarify and she explained the $$$ and shopping. Then we covered cooking which she doesn't know how at all.

Which is sad.

I'm a single dude and cook 3/4 times a week, take leftovers to work etc. Much healthier that way.
Mod cut.

At any rate, if she made it sound as if she'd never cook (or fill in any typical traditional role), I'd question how traditional she is as well.

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Old 01-21-2015, 09:30 PM
 
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Thanks. Not lookin for advice. Curious if anyone else had ssimilar experiences with women using this comical line.
Sorry, can't help then. I have run into a few men who use this line. It generally means they are politically conservative. It doesn't seem to line up with expected gender roles. In either case, doesn't sound like this women is the least bit traditional to me from what you've said.
 
Old 01-21-2015, 09:32 PM
 
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Sorry, can't help then. I have run into a few men who use this line. It generally means they are politically conservative. It doesn't seem to line up with expected gender roles. In either case, doesn't sound like this women is the least bit traditional to me from what you've said.
She wasn't. It's just a lline she used to try and justify getting perks she believes "traditional" women of old got
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