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Old 01-23-2015, 03:48 PM
 
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No. Leave her alone.
This^^^^
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Old 01-23-2015, 03:49 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I know guys like the OP so I can somewhat sympathize. Either due to inexperience or his innate personality, he will probably always remain non aggressive, meaning he will be timid in making moves. If you find the right girl, someone who likes you for you, you can just take your time and she will put up with it. However, if the girl wants someone more aggressive, no formula for kissing will help you. Ultimately she won't be attracted to you.
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Old 01-23-2015, 04:21 PM
 
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lol

3 dates!

c-d stats says you should have gotten sex on the 3rd date
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Old 01-23-2015, 05:49 PM
 
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I dunno, maybe try running around the bases backwards? Ignore the cries of rape, that's just her dirty talking.
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Old 01-23-2015, 09:48 PM
 
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This girl broke with her 4 year old boy friend three months ago, if I grab her hand and hold hands with her on the 4th date will she see me as eager and aggressive, I don't know if she wants to take things slow but I also don't want to get friend zoned. what do you think?
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Old 01-23-2015, 09:53 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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This girl broke with her 4 year old boy friend three months ago, if I grab her hand and hold hands with her on the 4th date will she see me as eager and aggressive, I don't know if she wants to take things slow but I also don't want to get friend zoned. what do you think?
4 year old boyfriend? We've got bigger problems here!

Lol.

You need to make a move. Don't ask. Just do it.
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Old 01-23-2015, 11:35 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Been on dates like that no kiss after 2-3 dates, it's ok. I move on. I've been to dates where I make out after just 2-3 hrs on the date and some dates on the 2nd night already had one night stands and more. No biggie, I didn't have to be aggressive too. But you have to show your willingness to embrace.
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Old 01-23-2015, 11:40 PM
 
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This girl broke with her 4 year old boy friend three months ago, if I grab her hand and hold hands with her on the 4th date will she see me as eager and aggressive, I don't know if she wants to take things slow but I also don't want to get friend zoned. what do you think?
You haven't held hands? Unless she had more issues than you do....she is not going to see you as eager or aggressive! (!!??!!).....she's probably wondering why you keep asking her out if you can't even show you like her a little bit.
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Old 01-24-2015, 05:39 PM
 
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This girl broke with her 4 year old boy friend three months ago, if I grab her hand and hold hands with her on the 4th date will she see me as eager and aggressive, I don't know if she wants to take things slow but I also don't want to get friend zoned. what do you think?

I really think you should leave her alone. You're no where close to being ready to date.
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Old 01-24-2015, 07:07 PM
 
Location: PANAMA
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Put your arms around her waist next time you are in a music concert and they play something slow. Watch her reaction...and go for it...

If she gets closer to you or grabs your hand...you are in.

If she crosses her arms or just feels unease...she's not ready yet.
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