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Old 01-25-2015, 07:26 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Annulment might be the less stressful option, unless you enjoy being nagged from dawn to dusk.

If that's not an option, then you need to assume the role of a badass Viking warlord and tell her to cease and desist immediately. Not a peep of complaint because you're working to rescue her sorry behind from a sinking ship.

It's a cultural thing. You might be a nice guy deep down, but you're going to need to play a different role in this situation.
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Old 01-25-2015, 07:28 AM
 
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i noticed he replied without actually answering the question

he deferred to xyz "costs" this

so essentially this *marriage* was a business transaction

I still wanna know how he came to be in love with an insufferable woman like this

enquiring mnds would like to know...
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Old 01-25-2015, 07:29 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Mail order bride. I get it now.
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Old 01-25-2015, 08:31 AM
 
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Every cliche under the sun. I'm sure this is real....
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Old 01-25-2015, 08:34 AM
 
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It is not only about you guys it is about the girl too.
You are rushing into marriage and having kid.
If we dated and lived together for let's say 2 years or signed a paper and lived together for 2 years please explain the difference in emotional impact on her child.

I'm not here to justify my reasons for falling in love with this woman. Where I live there is no fiencee visa and visitors visa was denied as with 99% of Russians. I signed this paper to try for a lasting relationship. I don't know exact numbers but maybe 50% of marriages fail. This is from people who have dated for years before getting married. According to some information I have read the failure rate of foreign marriages is not as high.
"Mail order bride" "marriage of convince " thanks for the great advice and support. I'm buying a ticket and heading back to russia where I was appreciated rofl
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Old 01-25-2015, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Wow.
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Old 01-25-2015, 08:42 AM
 
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You made a BIG mistake, but you can correct that mistake...Get your marriage annulled or just simply forget this woman exists. Unless you want to live a nightmare of a life. Those ridiculous things you got harangued about are only going to get worse. Clearly she has little respect for you, and that is not likely to change very much.
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Old 01-25-2015, 08:48 AM
 
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If we dated and lived together for let's say 2 years or signed a paper and lived together for 2 years please explain the difference in emotional impact on her child.

I'm not here to justify my reasons for falling in love with this woman. Where I live there is no fiencee visa and visitors visa was denied as with 99% of Russians. I signed this paper to try for a lasting relationship. I don't know exact numbers but maybe 50% of marriages fail. This is from people who have dated for years before getting married. According to some information I have read the failure rate of foreign marriages is not as high.
"Mail order bride" "marriage of convince " thanks for the great advice and support. I'm buying a ticket and heading back to russia where I was appreciated rofl
It is small group do that why divorced rate is low.
Marriage is big thing and being a father is even bigger things.
You barely spend with her and child, you barely know them.
Do you know even why she is single mom?
If your relationship is great , why you are complain on a forum ?
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Old 01-25-2015, 08:49 AM
 
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Oh my goodness. This has reality TV written all over it.

Hey, OP, why was this preferable to meeting and falling in love with an American woman? Is there something wrong with you that you can't attract a normal lady?
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Old 01-25-2015, 08:57 AM
 
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well at least tell us how much you paid for her

then we can comparison shop for the childless model w/o the atitude.

cheers!
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