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Old 01-25-2015, 10:00 AM
 
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why the rule to not acknowledge her in public? seems a bit extreme even with FWB

 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:02 AM
 
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Are you married or going through a rough divorce? I don't understand the severe rules of secrecy here.

Anyway, you know the answer. She's developed feelings for you, understandably so if the visits are this frequent and include overnight stays. Either end it or start dating her. Obviously you have some feelings for her as well or you wouldn't be letting her spend the night.
 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:06 AM
 
Location: NJ
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OP"Otherwise what would be the point of being with me?"

There is none, and she figured that out.
 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:12 AM
 
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why the rule to not acknowledge her in public? seems a bit extreme even with FWB
I don't like commitment and I like to keep my private life, private.
 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:15 AM
 
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I don't like commitment and I like to keep my private life, private.
Just end then!
 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:16 AM
 
Location: NJ
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Man up, OP, accept she is no longer dumb enough to accept your outrageous terms.
 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I don't like commitment and I like to keep my private life, private.
The definition of using.

I can't believe you don't see it.

Time to move on, OP.
 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:18 AM
 
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Are you married or going through a rough divorce? I don't understand the severe rules of secrecy here.
No, I've never been married, fortunately.

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Anyway, you know the answer. She's developed feelings for you, understandably so if the visits are this frequent and include overnight stays. Either end it or start dating her. Obviously you have some feelings for her as well or you wouldn't be letting her spend the night.
No, not really. I enjoy having her in my bed. That's all. What does staying here overnight has to do with anything?
 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:25 AM
 
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No, I've never been married, fortunately.



No, not really. I enjoy having her in my bed. That's all. What does staying here overnight has to do with anything?
Most people consider "sleeping" together more intimate and goes beyond a FWB situation.
 
Old 01-25-2015, 11:26 AM
 
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Man up, OP, accept she is no longer dumb enough to accept your outrageous terms.
What outrageous terms? I didn't mislead her into anything.
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