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I suppose this thread is mostly for people who went to traditional four year colleges. I had a brief stint at a commuter community college and it was definitely not a place to find single attractive women.
Totally depends on your location. If you live in a city like New York or Miami, you will be surrounded by young beautiful women the rest of your life.
True, and if you can afford to live in the inner metro area you're probably already doing well for yourself (engineer, doctor, lawyer, stock broker, etc) and should have no trouble getting women. On the flip side, you can be a starving artist or musician and still be swimming in women in a big city. One thing is certain though, you cannot be boring or average in any way.
Nobody is saying that SOME women don't go after status. They're saying that not all women do, plenty don't care and just want someone who treats them well and loves them, who will make a good father, etc...
No, the argument that was made is that high status women do not go for high status males.
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I know a victorias secret angel who married a nobody. He's a 6'4'' good looking nobody, but a nobody all the same.
It's way more common then you think. When you have status and money you don't necessarily require it in your mate.
It's not about requiring it so much as being attracted to it and women are hardwired to be attracted to high status males. They can't change it anymore than a man can change the fact they they are attracted to pretty women.
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What about the millions of other average people who are married or in relationships or dating? Last time I checked, even poor people were in committed relationships.
What about them? Average isn't high status, but even an average women is going to look for a higher status male. This is true throughout the animal kingdom and has been true for humans for 100's of thousands of years.
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Is there a reason you think these examples represent millions of average women? A lot of women don't care about status. Look at the people around you. You'll notice there are ordinary women with ordinary husbands. Or do you live in isolation? Is that why you have to look up celebrities' lives on the internet and use them as examples?
A poster claimed that high status women do not go for high status men, but instead go for looks. Supermodels have the highest status, so if there was any truth to the previous statement we would see models dating down, but that isn't what happens. If that were the case then we would see poor guys in KY with pretty supermodels or at least attractive women, but instead we see those guys with fat women.
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Originally Posted by Djuna
And women with status go for men with looks. Not all of us need a guy for his status ok.
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Seriously, out side of this ridiculous (most of the time) forum, have any of you ever talked to a friend about dating or other people and used the term "high status" when discussing someone?
Seriously, out side of this ridiculous (most of the time) forum, have any of you ever talked to a friend about dating or other people and used the term "high status" when discussing someone?
Me neither.
People don't talk about how water is wet either, but that doesn't mean water isn't wet.
It's definitely not quite as easy to meet women once you're out of college, but I'm sure it's still possible to be successful with them, you just have to put a little more effort with them.
I'm 23 and I've never really been successful with women.. I had one gf in college and a few hookups. Since I graduated last year I haven't really met any women. But at this point I've kind of come to terms with the fact that I'll probably never be the kind of guy who hooks up with a different girl every week, as much as I'd like to. Right now I'm just taking some time to focus on other stuff like my job and hobbies.
Op is college grad so he is good place
Have you guys thought op might be the problem not the women?
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