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Old 01-28-2015, 01:09 PM
 
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So I've been seeing(female) someone for a couple of weeks now. We both are extremely fond of each other and very much so feel we are both what we have been holding are breaths for! Everything about each other we are absolutely crazy about.

That being said I dated her cousin over 15yrs ago.. I was in my teens and now am in my mid 30's.. Theiy're close cousins but she's willing to go for it but is also concerned on hurting someone for her happiness but is also pro pleasing her own needs first..

My ex (her cousin) is a very kind hearted individual and has always wanted the best for me to this date.

I guess my question is aside from possibly going through some criticism Is it worth it for both of us if it meant being together forever? We both understand it's kinda morally not the right thing to do but we both feel the need to put our own needs first..

I really really like her and feel she's the one :-(
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Old 01-28-2015, 01:28 PM
 
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15 years ago? Don't give it a second thought.

Why do you think it's morally wrong? Who would criticize you?
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Old 01-28-2015, 01:32 PM
 
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There is nothing amoral about dating the cousin of someone you dated 15 years ago as a teenager. It's pretty likely that she has gotten over you by now.
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Old 01-28-2015, 01:43 PM
 
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If your girl knows about this, and is ok with it, I don't see a problem at all. Good luck!
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Old 01-28-2015, 10:03 PM
 
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15 years ago? Don't give it a second thought.

Why do you think it's morally wrong? Who would criticize you?
@Rumps not sure I guess I always put others feelings first before mine..
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Old 01-28-2015, 10:05 PM
 
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There is nothing amoral about dating the cousin of someone you dated 15 years ago as a teenager. It's pretty likely that she has gotten over you by now.
thank you so much :-)
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Old 01-28-2015, 10:06 PM
 
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If your girl knows about this, and is ok with it, I don't see a problem at all. Good luck!
I figured that but certainly wasn't thinking positive. She's just that awesome. Thank u
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