U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
View detailed profile (Advanced) or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Closed Thread Start New Thread
 
Old 01-29-2015, 06:49 AM
 
32,778 posts, read 22,716,611 times
Reputation: 29800

Advertisements

Quote:
Originally Posted by Checkered24 View Post
I would be concerned if a single mom did NOT think this when approaching dating someone.

Yeah, if a woman put me ahead of her child, that would be a dealbreaker for me.

 
Old 01-29-2015, 06:50 AM
 
Location: San Bernandino, CA
245 posts, read 162,528 times
Reputation: 324
Quote:
Originally Posted by jsun556 View Post
Only to betas and possibly single men who have kids themselves.
Stupid attitude... from someone who pays way too much attention to self-given descriptors

Dating single women is not for everyone, but it's my experience that there are some out there who have a lot more going for them than never-married women with no kids.

I think a lot of people cant get past the perceived "baggage" that comes with them, and the whole "i'm not paying for someone else's kid" thing, which is mostly broke a$$ single alpha males living in their parents house still
 
Old 01-29-2015, 07:24 AM
 
Location: Terra
2,827 posts, read 3,056,006 times
Reputation: 3331
Quote:
Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar View Post
Matt Damon married a single mom.
Awwww, what a nice guy...
 
Old 01-29-2015, 07:28 AM
 
Location: Terra
2,827 posts, read 3,056,006 times
Reputation: 3331
Quote:
Originally Posted by JoeSmith357 View Post
I think a lot of people cant get past the perceived "baggage" that comes with them, and the whole "i'm not paying for someone else's kid" thing, which is mostly broke a$$ single alpha males living in their parents house still
LOL, so people who don't want to pay for someone else's kid are broke ass single guys?

Please, post more so I can laugh harder. I guess you never heard that nobody ever got rich by spending money on stupid things.

And yes, spending money on a kid that isn't yours is stupid. But hey single moms, don't worry; plenty of doormats out there for ya that will spend on you and your kid just because they are too scared and needy to be alone.
 
Old 01-29-2015, 07:31 AM
 
32,778 posts, read 22,716,611 times
Reputation: 29800
This comes up every damn time. I've dated single moms. Several. I've never been asked to, expected to, or encouraged to spend money on their child. It's never, ever been an issue.

And my brother and SIL adopted a child. I guess they're "stupid" because they're both spending money on a kid that "isn't theirs" biologically.
 
Old 01-29-2015, 07:33 AM
 
Location: North Shore Long Island
7,736 posts, read 13,977,561 times
Reputation: 10544
Quote:
Originally Posted by jsun556 View Post
Only to betas and possibly single men who have kids themselves.

Moms are dealbreakers for me.
Let me guess, you're a self-proclaimed Alpha?
 
Old 01-29-2015, 07:34 AM
 
141 posts, read 111,118 times
Reputation: 301
When they are dating pedophiles.
 
Old 01-29-2015, 07:38 AM
 
6,911 posts, read 3,747,845 times
Reputation: 4613
Quote:
Originally Posted by timberline742 View Post
This comes up every damn time. I've dated single moms. Several. I've never been asked to, expected to, or encouraged to spend money on their child. It's never, ever been an issue.

And my brother and SIL adopted a child. I guess they're "stupid" because they're both spending money on a kid that "isn't theirs" biologically.
Agreed.
 
Old 01-29-2015, 07:39 AM
 
Location: Terra
2,827 posts, read 3,056,006 times
Reputation: 3331
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheImportersWife View Post
Let me guess, you're a self-proclaimed Alpha?
No, I am however a self-proclaimed realist and somewhat sensible person until I become inebriated from a night out.
 
Old 01-29-2015, 07:41 AM
 
366 posts, read 294,627 times
Reputation: 876
"Single mom" meaning never married and illegitimate child(ren) or "divorced mom" who was married to the father of her child(ren)?

I think there's a difference.

I would say that they become desirable as soon as someone desires them. What does that even mean? Is this just a thread to bash women with children?
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Closed Thread

Over $104,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Similar Threads
Follow City-Data.com founder on our Forum or

All times are GMT -6.

2005-2018, Advameg, Inc.

City-Data.com - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30, 31, 32, 33, 34, 35 - Top