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Old 02-12-2015, 12:17 PM
 
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I am not being judged for something that they do not know exists....
Good guys sense it. They see you have two kids by two different men and it sends warning vibes.

 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:30 PM
 
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Good guys sense it. They see you have two kids by two different men and it sends warning vibes.
Lol well if they are sensing something negative about two kids with two different dads... They will still not want me regardless of the welfare or not. We should be able to test your theory soon as I beginning to receive child support, and that will end the food stamps.

To look at me and my lifestyle, "welfare" or food stamps, would be the last thing a potential date would sense.
 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:35 PM
 
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Lol well if they are sensing something negative about two kids with two different dads... They will still not want me regardless of the welfare or not. We should be able to test your theory soon as I beginning to receive child support, and that will end the food stamps.

To look at me and my lifestyle, "welfare" or food stamps, would be the last thing a potential date would sense.
But if you are making great money like you claim then you shouldn't need the food stamps. But yes men sense a woman with two baby daddies is probably not for them.
 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
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In a very close relationship it is you and her against the world despite jobs, ailing parents, home repairs, chores, pets, houseplants, etc.
Again, good luck with that. Not that it is not obtainable but really not all that common, quite rare actually.
 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
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Actually the OP is in that category. Many of the single dads I found on dating
sites were as well.
Not really. She is receiving food stamps but apparently makes good money and has investments and she was married ( I think).




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It's why I would tell anyone considering marrying a parent to look at financial aspects.

That's always sound advice even if one is not considering marrying a parent.
 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:45 PM
 
Location: Terra
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Good guys sense it. They see you have two kids by two different men and it sends warning vibes.
I knew she was on welfare, bud didn't know about the 2 different kids with 2 baby daddies.

Good luck with that.
 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:45 PM
 
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Not really. She is receiving food stamps but apparently makes good money and has investments and she was married ( I think).
But if she is receiving food stamps she doesn't make good money unless she is lying. She wasn't married to the one baby daddy, he is living and isn't paying for the child, we are.
 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:46 PM
 
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I knew she was on welfare, bud didn't know about the 2 different kids with 2 baby daddies.

Good luck with that.
Yes the first kid was apparently a husband who died then she married another guy then her second child was from a guy she wasn't married to (who is still living). The second baby daddy is bipolar or some mental illness.
 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:46 PM
 
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But if you are making great money like you claim then you shouldn't need the food stamps. But yes men sense a woman with two baby daddies is probably not for them.
I did not say I make good money. I have said I am low income. I have money and assets though. So not exactly broke.

My salary is in the same range as many of my friends, so it may not be low income generally, just low income when raising kids.
 
Old 02-12-2015, 12:47 PM
 
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I did not say I make good money. I have said I am low income. I have money and assets though. So not exactly broke.

My salary is in the same range as many of my friends, so it may not be low income generally, just low income when raising kids.
But you have (according to you)two houses and two cars. Actually you did say you made good money.
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