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When I first met my boyfriend he told me that he fell in love with his best friend and that he was with a girl who he saw a future with but she disappointed him. He has also told me that I am the only person he has ever loved. That he never had a serious relationship.
I confessed to him through text that before I met him I never fell in love with anyone. That he is the only person that I have fallen in love with.
He said,"Me too. What we have is serious. What we have is like those love stories that go on for a lifetime my love".
I told him I didn't know that i was the only person he fell in love with like I did with him. That I found that special and he told me "off course my love. we are meant for each other".
I also told him I was under the impression he was in love with other people and he told me . "Hell no my love"
I'm confused. Did he just feel infatuation for those girl then? Did he think he was in love and now realizes with me what is is to be really in love and love ?
We are a serious couple of many years.
Thanks in advance.
Let me get the mind reading cards out...let me see...he's telling you what you want to hear and blowing smoke up your dress about being in love with his girlfriend before you.
If you are a long term, serious couple then why are you worrying about the past?
Let me get the mind reading cards out...let me see...he's telling you what you want to hear and blowing smoke up your dress about being in love with his girlfriend before you.
If you are a long term, serious couple then why are you worrying about the past?
I will second this. But I see why you want to know and may have some fears down the line.
But here is the thing. We can speculate until the cows come home. The only way we will ever know is until after you ask him then come back to tell us. Then, and only then, we will know why he is double talking...
These questions are confusing me and I am not even the relationship.
From what it seems...he is telling what you want to hear or he could mean it. Personally I don't believe those "lines" because that is exactly what they sound like. Corny lines he got from a movie.
Why don't you ask him instead of asking strangers on the internet.
He doesn't want you to be the only one that feels the way you do, so he's telling you what he thinks you want to hear.
Or maybe he just feels more like this thing with you is real love as opposed to his earlier relationships.
Point being, nobody but him knows and if you want the truth out of him, then just go tell him it's okay if he loved other people in the past as long as he loves you now... and wait to see what he says.
If he sticks to his story about only loving you, just roll with it.
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If you're a long-term serious couple, you should not be having these conversations via text. Of course, neither should anyone who just started dating, but the young'uns here won't listen to us older and wiser folk who don't come here requesting interpretations.
I asked him if he was being honest when he said that he NEVER had fallen in love with anyone but me. or if he was saying this to please me. He said he told me the truth. To not dwell on things of the past that don't help and are not helpful to our relationship.
I feel better.
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