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Old 02-02-2015, 10:29 PM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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Love the title..."Went on holiday and have upset the guy I'm dating."

Was "Ignored the guy I'm dating for weeks, banged some other guy, & now he's justifiably upset" too long?
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Old 02-02-2015, 10:56 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Love the title..."Went on holiday and have upset the guy I'm dating."

Was "Ignored the guy I'm dating for weeks, banged some other guy, & now he's justifiably upset" too long?
LOL....
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Old 02-02-2015, 11:14 PM
 
Location: Mountains of Oregon
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Love the title..."Went on holiday and have upset the guy I'm dating."

Was "Ignored the guy I'm dating for weeks, banged some other guy, & now he's justifiably upset" too long?

hahahahaha.............eggsactly.
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Old 02-03-2015, 04:53 AM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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Tell him the truth! tell him that your sk**ky side got the best of you during the holiday. Perhaps, he will forgive you.

Just a suggestion.
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And go get yourself checked for STD's!
Hey, hey, hey - what's with the s-shaming?

They never agreed on being mutually exclusive. Yeah, she was a jerk and the guy shouldn't give her the time of day, but that doesn't make her a s-, skank or whatever else.

I don't understand the double standard.

If this was a guy, no doubt the everyone would be singing the same tune about him being a jerk, but I doubt so many men would be actively calling him a s-. Having sex doesn't make you a s-. She misrepresented her intentions, she was rude and selfish and it was a crappy thing to do to the guy, but sexual promiscuity is not the problem.

Seriously, not cool.
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Old 02-03-2015, 06:43 AM
 
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Hey, hey, hey - what's with the s-shaming?

They never agreed on being mutually exclusive. Yeah, she was a jerk and the guy shouldn't give her the time of day, but that doesn't make her a s-, skank or whatever else.

I don't understand the double standard.

If this was a guy, no doubt the everyone would be singing the same tune about him being a jerk, but I doubt so many men would be actively calling him a s-. Having sex doesn't make you a s-. She misrepresented her intentions, she was rude and selfish and it was a crappy thing to do to the guy, but sexual promiscuity is not the problem.

Seriously, not cool.
Exactly!
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Old 02-03-2015, 06:45 AM
 
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That's because when you 'go on holiday' for 3 weeks, you can't expect another human being to act like a machine that has an on/off switch to immediately go back to being into you when you return.

Human beings are not toasters.

If you were really into him, you would plan a 'holiday' with him as opposed to one without him.
Don't agree with this at all. People often date for months before taking vacations together...and during that time period, often take vacations without the person they're dating.
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Old 02-03-2015, 06:56 AM
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Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Hey, hey, hey - what's with the s-shaming?

They never agreed on being mutually exclusive. Yeah, she was a jerk and the guy shouldn't give her the time of day, but that doesn't make her a s-, skank or whatever else.

I don't understand the double standard.

If this was a guy, no doubt the everyone would be singing the same tune about him being a jerk, but I doubt so many men would be actively calling him a s-. Having sex doesn't make you a s-. She misrepresented her intentions, she was rude and selfish and it was a crappy thing to do to the guy, but sexual promiscuity is not the problem.

Seriously, not cool.

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Bear in mind he does not know that I 'cheated'.

Dude, chill. Don't you have school or something to go to. Go back to bed
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Old 02-03-2015, 06:57 AM
 
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I am struggling with the expression, "got with another guy." What exactly did you get? Did you want it in the first place? Would you want a guy in a relationship with you to "get" what you got from someone else? How would you feel if that happened?
I totally hope this fellow is smart enough to continue doing what he is doing. He will be saving himself from the depths of betrayal and also from some pretty disgusting diseases....
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Old 02-03-2015, 06:58 AM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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We haven't had 'the talk' so I would consider us casual.
Dude, it's 8 am. Most people are awake at this time.
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Old 02-03-2015, 07:06 AM
 
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I don't know why everyone is going on about diseases, it was a kiss! A very brief one at that.

He's also no longer ignoring me and I found out indirectly from a mutual friend who lives with him that he was actually working late that night and has been slammed at work. He also messaged me saying how much he misses me.
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