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In posting this particular "problem" on this board, exactly what are you hoping for? Do you want people to validate that which you are contemplating? Are you going to tally up the opinions and do what the majority wants you to do? Are you prepared for the feelings that you many have later on in life after you decide to abort? Have you spoken to someone who can advise you impartially and knows you personally? Do you think before you act or speak? Have you learned anything from this experience?
What strikes me about so many posts on this board is that seemingly, no one is taught to respect where they are in relation to the universe. What happened to the knowledge that the actions we take will have consequences in the future?
I suppose that if sex is treated as a recreational activity, the game may have a surprise ending. Next time stick to ping pong. It's safer.
Good luck in your future. Next time keep your legs crossed and your lips sealed.
Let me make it very clear to you that I'm thoroughly aware of what my decision means and what it entails and I'm perfectly at ease with it. I'm not looking for validation, as I didn't make this for majority vote on my pregnancy, but how to handle my boyfriend's reaction to it. I won't even dignify the rest of your post because it screams ignorance, judgment and a right-wing agenda I'm not interested in.
Mod cut.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 01-31-2015 at 10:48 PM..
Reason: Inappropriate language.
But couldn't you say she shouldn't have had sex if she wasn't ready to be a mother, or until a career and adult life was stable. So you can say that about any party in the case of unwanted pregnancy.
Let me make it very clear to you that I'm thoroughly aware of what my decision means and what it entails and I'm perfectly at ease with it. I'm not looking for validation, as I didn't make this for majority vote on my pregnancy, but how to handle my boyfriend's reaction to it. I won't even dignify the rest of your post because it screams ignorance, judgment and a right-wing agenda I'm not interested in.
Short of telling you to go f-- yourself ... good day.
I suggest going offline and talk to a trusted adult, counselor, friend. I totally agree with the post you are responding to. You want support, look for it in the right place. If you can't handle the comments it's time to log off.
I suggest going offline and talk to a trusted adult, counselor, friend. I totally agree with the post you are responding to. You want support, look for it in the right place. If you can't handle the comments it's time to log off.
I don't need to talk to a trusted adult, counsellor, etc. I've already spoken to my mother and my discussion with her was more than enough. Furthermore, I don't know how many times I have to repeat that I'm not having second thoughts or backtracking on my decision to have an abortion. If I "regret" it once it's done and need counselling, then I will cross that bridge when I get there.
I never asked for support, either.
No, I won't allow someone to tell me to shut my mouth and close my legs because I engaged in "recreational" sex.
and I think the difference between him and her is but he's willing to accept the consequences and she isn't.
but I don't know what we can tell you. How to get the bf to be ok with it? He won't. Ever.
No, if you read my original post, the only piece of advice I asked was whether I should cut all contact and go through with it.
That's it.
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