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Old 02-02-2015, 01:27 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Because the opportunity is available to them and since some Hot guys would sleep with average girls they figured they might as well give it a shot
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Old 02-02-2015, 06:42 AM
 
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No,that doesn't answer the question.Because are they ok with talking to guys in their league outside of the bars and clubs but why are things different at the bar and club?
If i am going to be used for sex for 1 night,would not it make sense i get the best looking guy?

Are you looking for love or are you looking for an easy lay at the bar?
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Old 02-02-2015, 06:44 AM
 
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OP,i do talk to average to ugly guys at the bar if they show me the money.

Buy her as many drinks as she wants.

If you are at a club,take her to the VIP section.
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Old 02-02-2015, 06:48 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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I've actually never seen a woman approach a man at all in a bar before. Most women seem to be with their friends, male and female included and rarely venture out of their little group.
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Old 02-02-2015, 07:25 AM
 
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Because the opportunity is available to them and since some Hot guys would sleep with average girls they figured they might as well give it a shot
Absolutely, this
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Old 02-14-2015, 12:37 PM
 
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
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OP,i do talk to average to ugly guys at the bar if they show me the money.

Buy her as many drinks as she wants.

If you are at a club,take her to the VIP section.
That sadly is true.

For the women who try to date up at bars, I'd say it's a mix of liquid courage and some reason to think what happens at the bar stays at the bar (re reputation).
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Old 02-14-2015, 04:09 PM
 
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Same reason average guys want to talk to the hot girls?

??? ??? ??? You must be ****ting me. I have seen that happen rarely. Not the norm at all.
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Old 02-18-2015, 10:22 PM
 
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OP,i do talk to average to ugly guys at the bar if they show me the money.

Buy her as many drinks as she wants.

If you are at a club,take her to the VIP section.
Wow so you would only dance with average and below average looking guys at the club if they buy you a drink first or if they take you to the VIP section and you would only talk to an average or below average looking guy at the bar if they buy you a drink? But yet me guess if a good looking guy doesn't buy you a drink at the bar you would still be ok with talking to them and if a good looking at the club doesn't buy you a drink at the club and if he doesn't take you to the VIP section at the club you would still be ok with talking to him anyways?
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Old 02-18-2015, 10:51 PM
 
Location: Paranoid State
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Go rent "A Beautiful Mind", starring Russell Crowe. The 2001 movie is about John Nash, a brilliant mathematician who identified something called the Nash Equilibrium in Game Theory while observing in a bar groups of women and men and the men who approach women, and the women who turn them down. This led to his dissertation topic. Nash earned his PhD with a 28 page dissertation (that is exceptionally short!!!) on this (Non-Cooperative Games), and this dissertation earned him the Nobel Prize in Economics.
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Old 02-18-2015, 10:59 PM
 
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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How come everybody on here seems to imply that the average person is not hot. I have to tell you, 80% of the women I come in contact with, I am sexually attracted to them to one degree or another.

Anyway, I have to agree with the person who said, how hot you are has no affect on who you find to be hot. Somebody being out of your league won't stop you from being attracted to them.
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