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Old 02-10-2015, 10:31 PM
 
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Fixed that for you.
Most people are shallow. It's only a question of degree. I'm no different, if my gf gained 100lbs I would drop her and if I was broke she would likewise drop me.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:31 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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I'm pretty sure that's not the norm. Else, burger flippers would be rollin in booty.
I didn't work there, but I had friends that used to work at some of those chain steakhouses in the town I grew up in and they were always hooking up with each other. A lot of those waitresses were pretty hot, too.

If you think you need a ton of money to net a woman, then you're going after the wrong women. At least IMO. I want a woman with more depth than that.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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Most people are shallow. It's only a question of degree. I'm no different, if my gf gained 100lbs I would drop her and if I was broke she would likewise drop me.
Perhaps most people you know. I tend to associate more with a deeper crowd than that these days.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:35 PM
 
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I didn't work there, but I had friends that used to work at some of those chain steakhouses in the town I grew up with and they were always hooking up with each other. A lot of those waitresses were pretty hot, too.

If you think you need a ton of money to net a woman, then you're going after the wrong women. At least IMO. I want a woman with more depth than that.
That's where we differ. I know women are shallow and I'm okay with that.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:36 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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That's where we differ. I know women are shallow and I'm okay with that.
You do what's working for you, and I'll keep doing what's working for me.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:37 PM
 
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You do what's working for you, and I'll keep doing what's working for me.
I shall.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:42 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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And that's why you're probably oblivious to what else is out there. That's why I have the opinion that I have. I've actually seen both sides of this, not just the innocent side that you've been exposed to most of your life.
I am well aware that there are bad people out there - I just choose not to associate with them.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:43 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Most people are shallow. It's only a question of degree. I'm no different, if my gf gained 100lbs I would drop her and if I was broke she would likewise drop me.
Well, if you are both happy knowing that you are both using each other and don't really have deep feelings for each other - then that's all that matters. I've known people like that. Whatever floats your boat.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:51 PM
 
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Well, if you are both happy knowing that you are both using each other and don't really have deep feelings for each other - then that's all that matters. I've known people like that. Whatever floats your boat.
As far as I know we aren't using each other, however, she comes from a wealthy family and has certain expectations. Fortunately I do as well. If neither looks nor money mattered we would see the poor and fat pairing up with the trim and privileged, but that's not really how it works.
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Old 02-10-2015, 10:55 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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As far as I know we aren't using each other, however, she comes from a wealthy family and has certain expectations. Fortunately I do as well. If neither looks nor money mattered we would see the poor and fat pairing up with the trim and privileged, but that's not really how it works.
If you are only with her because she's hot and she's only with you because of your money - then I would say that that is using each other. But that's just me. Looks and money matter - but differently to different people. Is she also okay with you spending money on other women so that you can sleep with them as well?
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