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Face it every man would put up with a pretty faced woman even if she has nothing going for her. The same is not true for the opposite. A man with nothing going for him is quick to be called out as weird, a bum, unambitious, not making the best of his usefullness, ect. Why?
Is it because men are expected to lead and be a outpost for others to live their lives based on.
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Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76
Then who are women dating if men are losing out?
Thats what I always wonder! If a woman is going out, there is a guy going out as well.
BUT OH NO! We can introduce the PUA favorite thing called the Paretto Law or something like that where they claim 20% of the guys are doing 80% of the dating, or some similar crud. (Another lovely concept people outside of CDR and other similar forums have never heard of).
These people just don't go outside and see the real world of restaurants, bars, movies, events where people are out with other people all the time. And they're all "levels" of looks and heights and levels of affluence.
Face it every man would put up with a pretty faced woman even if she has nothing going for her. The same is not true for the opposite. A man with nothing going for him is quick to be called out as weird, a bum, unambitious, not making the best of his usefullness, ect. Why?
Is it because men are expected to lead and be a outpost for others to live their lives based on.
So, whose fault is this?
Let's pretend what you're saying is 100% true.
Maybe men should demand more from the women they date than a pretty face. Perhaps date one because she understands your situation and likes you anyway.
Just a logical thought.
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Face it every man would put up with a pretty faced woman even if she has nothing going for her.
Even if this were true, it's the MEN doing the putting up. Stop chasing pretty faces instead of whole women if you want that to change.
Also, not every woman is pretty. Most are not. So maybe you should say "Pretty women are the only ones who don't lose in the dating game."
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