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Old 02-13-2015, 01:01 PM
 
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Well, since you are male you can't go to a woman's shelter for support, but there might be LGBT organizations that can help you. Also, since you are male you can man up and fight back.
Well he says he does push and hit his boyfriend. But it doesn't do much good. His boyfriend is bigger and stronger and can end the fights with the OP needing medical attention.
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Old 02-13-2015, 01:03 PM
 
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Well he says he does push and hit his boyfriend. But it doesn't do much good. His boyfriend is bigger and stronger and can end the fights with the OP needing medical attention.
I missed that.
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Old 02-13-2015, 01:10 PM
 
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Well he says he does push and hit his boyfriend. But it doesn't do much good. His boyfriend is bigger and stronger and can end the fights with the OP needing medical attention.
i am 5'4 129 pounds
he is 5'9 200 pounds
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Old 02-13-2015, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Well, since you are male you can't go to a woman's shelter for support, but there might be LGBT organizations that can help you. Also, since you are male you can man up and fight back.
Exactly this! The fact that you are both male doesn't change the fact that this is domestic violence. It does change the advice you might be given about where to go for help.
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Old 02-13-2015, 01:25 PM
 
Location: St. Catharines, ON
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i am 5'4 129 pounds
he is 5'9 200 pounds
From my experience, if he's swinging at you, you throw something and run for the door. He won't hit you if you're outside and people can see.
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Old 02-13-2015, 01:28 PM
 
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From my experience, if he's swinging at you, you throw something and run for the door. He won't hit you if you're outside and people can see.
we have fought infront of people before he has punched me and i have punched him back
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Old 02-13-2015, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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we have fought infront of people before he has punched me and i have punched him back
In healthy relationships, nobody punches anyone else. The fact that you are a man doesn't change anything. If you value your own life, stay away from this guy and get yourself some therapy. You need to find out why you would stay with someone who hurts you.
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Old 02-13-2015, 01:32 PM
 
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In healthy relationships, nobody punches anyone else. The fact that you are a man doesn't change anything. If you value your own life, stay away from this guy and get yourself some therapy. You need to find out why you would stay with someone who hurts you.
i have blocked him from contacting me in any way i am trying to make myself a better person and i am actually being offered new employment where the option of relocating is being offered so im excited

but i need to work on myself
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Old 02-13-2015, 04:53 PM
 
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i have blocked him from contacting me in any way i am trying to make myself a better person and i am actually being offered new employment where the option of relocating is being offered so im excited

but i need to work on myself
That's good. if you have no caved and talked to him again, you're doing good. Keep that up.

And really working on yourself can do wonders. I started improving myself last year, and I am excited to be moving forward. It can help self-esteem a bit. Just please DO NOT get back with that guy. And don't settle for being in this type of relationship in the future. If you see signs of controlling behavior, may be time to run, before any abuse starts.
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Old 02-28-2015, 09:43 AM
 
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but i love him and yes he has hit me but i have hit him back
Jerry jerry
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