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I consider myself to be at the bottom of the totem pole in the dating world. I was just wondering how a guy like myself can compete against normal or above average men. Even women that use online dating seem to only want the above average guys.
Every woman is not looking for the above average man if you are referring to looks. What do you have to offer that women want/need? Focus on that in your profile.
I consider myself to be at the bottom of the totem pole in the dating world. I was just wondering how a guy like myself can compete against normal or above average men. Even women that use online dating seem to only want the above average guys.
I'm sure there's a woman out there who would be happy to date you.
I consider myself to be at the bottom of the totem pole in the dating world. I was just wondering how a guy like myself can compete against normal or above average men. Even women that use online dating seem to only want the above average guys.
Why do you say that? Learn to love yourself. Self-confidence is sexy!
The first thing they do is stop considering themselves to be at the bottom of the totem pole in the dating world. That kind of attitude about yourself is unhealthy and will be visible to the people your going to be seeking a date from.
If you do not consider yourself worthy of someone's time for a date, they certainly are not.
This would be a good area to work on. Discover some self worth and what you DO have to offer someone else.
I consider myself to be at the bottom of the totem pole in the dating world. I was just wondering how a guy like myself can compete against normal or above average men. Even women that use online dating seem to only want the above average guys.
Good at·ti·tude will take you very far in your life
Don't feel bitter. Improve yourself like they told you here
Are you looking to set your bar lower in terms of women? because using online dating will definitely help in that regard lol. I guess it can help to talk to women online to overcome shyness somewhat, and hopefully make you less sensitive to rejection... the key is not to let any of it get to you.
When you are more comfortable communicating with women and not letting rejection get to you, go chat up some real women at your local coffee shop
Girls should be falling over themselves to date you, as you sound like someone who needs fixing.
I've found that guys who are perfectly normal and fine have a more difficult time, since they don't need to be "fixed."
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