Do I ask my date why she stood me up or is that just creepy? (men, single)

[Coolhand68]

It couldn't hurt just to ask her if she forgot about you. Though I have to say, if she was really looking forward to spending time with you, she would not forget and she would have made an effort to contact you. But at least you can say you gave her the benefit of the doubt and allowed her the opportunity to come clean. It also doesn't let her off the hook for just blowing you off if that's what she did.

[RedZin]

If you didn't confirm, she might have thought YOU weren't showing up and she's sitting around asking friends if she should call you.

Hell, just call her. Tell her you thought you two were supposed to meet up at X place at X time and ask her if you maybe got the time and place wrong.

If she takes the initiative and asks to reschedule? She's interested. If she plays dumb and doesn't ask to see you at another time? Write her off.

[Charlotte Panthers]

Originally Posted by 49ersfan27

Just move on. She didn't like you so find a woman who does.

You don't know that, neither does the OP, that's why he started this thread.

[CapsChick]

Originally Posted by Charlotte Panthers

You don't know that, neither does the OP, that's why he started this thread.

I wish he would return with an update!

[jsun556]

Whenever this happens I don't even bother contacting asking. I just write it off. Doesn't happen often, but when it does; meh.

[Dewdroplet76]

I would call and ask to make sure the person is okay.

[fleetiebelle]

Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76

I would call and ask to make sure the person is okay.

Or if she thought you were meeting on Thursday instead of Tuesday or something.

[DC33]

you can flip it and put the ball back in your court.
Send her a messages apologizing for YOU missing the date. Either a traffic, accident, something with work, or you simply got too busy and forgot. Puts you in the position of power and her being second to whatever excuse you use, might just peak some interest...or save you some face.

otherwise just forget it

[Sjd1]

Well I sent her a message. It was pretty basic asking her how she was and telling her I missed her on our date. I got no response. I'm afraid it seems that this one got away.

[Osito]

Originally Posted by Sjd1

Well I sent her a message. It was pretty basic asking her how she was and telling her I missed her on our date. I got no response. I'm afraid it seems that this one got away.

Count your blessings. Lady could use a lesson in basic manners.