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Old 02-17-2015, 09:09 AM
 
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not sure if you are familiar with my last two threads
how do you tell a partner you cheated??

should i take him back

we have decided to be friends or try out a FRIENDSHIP but idk what to do i dont really text him like that and ignore most of them the thing is we have met up for sex and the sex is still unprotected i dont know what to do

please help me please
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Old 02-17-2015, 09:12 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Stop having unprotected sex with him, or even stop having sex with him. Simple. It really is simple. I never "accidentally" had sex with anyone.
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Old 02-17-2015, 09:13 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Why would you want to stay friends with someone who beat you up?
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Old 02-17-2015, 09:14 AM
 
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not sure if you are familiar with my last two threads
how do you tell a partner you cheated??

should i take him back

we have decided to be friends or try out a FRIENDSHIP but idk what to do i dont really text him like that and ignore most of them the thing is we have met up for sex and the sex is still unprotected i dont know what to do

please help me please
1) Don't have unprotected sex with him
2) Don't have sex with him....period
3) Change your phone #
4) Don't be friends with a$$holes
5) Don't be friends with abusive people
6) Move on!
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Old 02-17-2015, 09:19 AM
 
Location: Riverside Ca
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not sure if you are familiar with my last two threads
how do you tell a partner you cheated??

should i take him back

we have decided to be friends or try out a FRIENDSHIP but idk what to do i dont really text him like that and ignore most of them the thing is we have met up for sex and the sex is still unprotected i dont know what to do

please help me please

We'll see now he's using you as a booty call. So he will keep being your " friend". Wanna test it out? Stop having sex with him especially unprotected sex. Not only pregnancy issue he could be screwing any nasty **** out there and giving you the gift that keeps on giving. I bet if you stop having sex with him the "friendship" will dissolve. Stop being so naive. The friendship is only there because you're having sex. Didn't realize you are a guy so pregnancy is not a issue but STDs are real and can be a issue. You're not smart if you're having unprotected sex.

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Old 02-17-2015, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Why should we help you when you insist on being an idiot?

You KNOW the answers. You're just ignoring them and doing whatever the hell you want to do and ACTING as if you have no control whatsoever over your own life and actions.

"please help me please"

I'll waste a little more energy typing out this advice for you: Grow up. Be a man. Save yourself. Stop being a dumb*ss.
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Old 02-17-2015, 09:41 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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If he wasn't good for you while dating, he won't be good for you as a friend.

Let go.
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Old 02-17-2015, 09:53 AM
 
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What is it that you need help with? The last two posts you received some thoughtful and sound advice: leave this abusive relationship.

You're now making decisions to keep seeing him and having sex, indicating you've chosen to skip the advice, which is fine.

So, again, I'm not sure what you want us to help you with.
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Old 02-17-2015, 10:16 AM
 
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You might as well stay dating this abuser. You are still having sex with him. You are enabling his bad behavior.

Jesus H. Jones we have tried to help you out. Yet, you reject our advise. Good luck. You're on your own.
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Old 02-17-2015, 10:31 AM
 
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Close your eyes for a second and imagine this.

You kept having sex with this guy and have a kid. You're holding your baby, feeling the overwhelming love pouring out from just looking at it, he or she is smiling up at you...

But wait... this abuser is the father. He gets visitation legally.

So, one day your baby comes home with bruises on his or her arm or bottom or face. And you could've prevented this.


There is nothing wrong with you except that you made a bad choice. You're not bad or less than. You do NOT deserve to be abused. No one does.

Like everyone else said, cut him out of your life completely like you would squash a bug or kill germs that want to infect you. THIS IS NOT LOVE. It's not friendship, it's not a positive sexual experience. It's poison.
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