Am I doing the right thing ending it with pothead guy? (sex, couples)

[IfICould]

Sounds like a person who would be good to sometimes hang out with in public as friends (he is less likely to smoke in public, I'm assuming.

You say he's very attentive but you also said that he takes forever you get back to you on plans or texts..? that doesn't make sense.

This sounds like someone I sort of know, if you are Bailey and he is Jason you need to break up, he is a sweet guy but a serious loser

[cindersslipper]

He sounds like a bit of a dick.

I don't know why youd want to kiss a bloke who makes your face swell, either.

[Dmmarketpa]

He's attentive in that in person he is usually amazing. He's super affectionate and remembers EVERY thing I say. He will remember if I have an important appointment, that sort of thing. He pays attention to me a lot. Via text however it's a totally different story for some strange reason. And he is very weird with plans. He seems to hate leaving his house.

[Dmmarketpa]

Also no, I'm not Bailey I'm Katie, he is Simon.

[cindersslipper]

I get it hun, but THIS:

Im allergic to weed and he is addicted to smoking. He gives me massive allergic reactions that take over a week to go and are incredibly painful
We weren't committed after 5 months and I felt he was stringing me along
He was really inconsiderate sometimes
I was NOT a priority to him and I deserve to be one
He was terrible/selfish in bed (WTF? Ed)
We barely texted and he sometimes took a whole day to text back yet always has his phone in his hand
He told me my allergic reactions are my fault
He used to ask to see me, I would suggest a day and then he would say 'I'll let you know' and take ages to get back to me
He wants to live with his brother for the rest of his life

[oh-eve]

Even ignoring the pothead issue, he doesn't sound like he is worth keeping.

[rego00123]

Originally Posted by hawaiiancoconut

People still smoke dubbies/joints. I thought we're in the era of pipes and bongs.

Walk in to any apartment building hallway in America to get your answer.

OP I am not seeing the draw for this guy. He sounds like a dead end in the waiting.

[JrzDefector]

Your headline asks if you're doing the right thing ending things with "this pothead guy" when really it should read "this absolute douchenozzle"

[cindersslipper]

I think you're allergic to HIM.

[Ashleyga]

I've dated a couple of guys who smoked pot. Then again, we were teenagers. It never really bothered me. But I wasn't allergic to it, either.

It wasn't until my last boyfriend, who delved into a lot more than just pot, when I finally decided to try it. I think there's a difference between people who smoke recreationally and those who use it as a cooping method. I probably would be a little more wary of a 30 year old who still smokes pot (just because I think it's a juvenile thing; kids like to experiment) but I don't write someone off simply for smoking it.

Now, a pot head is someone who is consumed by weed. Those guys, you want to steer clear of. Mainly because pot gets old and, speaking from experience, the devoted smokers will look for other drugs to help them out. Eventually.