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Old 02-25-2015, 02:09 PM
 
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In your experience do men like brains or looks?
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:13 PM
 
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Already moving on, Helen?

What am I entitled to?
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:19 PM
 
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Already moving on, Helen?

What am I entitled to?
No I'm just wondering what it is that men mostly see in women. What the attraction is.
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:20 PM
 
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Men aren't a hive mind. Different men are drawn to different things.
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:23 PM
 
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Men aren't a hive mind. Different men are drawn to different things.
I didn't say they're a hive mind. I said what in your experience do they tend to be attracted to.
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:26 PM
 
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Do you only have one or the other?
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:27 PM
 
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I didn't say they're a hive mind. I said what in your experience do they tend to be attracted to.
Well, considering the fact that, in order for them to find out you have brains, they have to talk to you first, we can rule out brains as the initial attractant, unless someone's strategy for attracting the opposite sex is through group activities or some context where people can get to know each other before deciding whether or not they have a person interest in them.
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:29 PM
 
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Do you only have one or the other?
Good question. I've seen men get attracted to women who were energetic and vivacious. No brains, nothing special in the looks dept.--even a bit overweight--but guys really go for the flirty, bubbly type, no matter what they look like.
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:36 PM
 
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Boobs.
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Old 02-25-2015, 02:42 PM
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So men and women are generally attracted to looks first, because that's immediately what people see first. Men are extremely varied in the combinations of looks we are attracted too.

My advice is to be yourself, but if being yourself means you're a curmudgeon, you may want to improve on that, and know your physical features and maybe find a way to show them off without being too showy, if that makes sense.

unless you have big boobs. You can't not show those off, even if you're wearing stuff that hides the bust, they will be there for people to see.
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